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We Met At Acme

Farmer Nick + the Dos and Don't of dating app profiles

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 22 September 2019

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I start by discussing the do's and don'ts of dating app profiles, toxic friendships, having the upper hand in dating, things I wish I knew at 22, and more! Then, I chat with Farmer Nick about going from IBM to farming, his interfaith relationship, his choice not to drink, why he doesn't kiss on a first date, and more!
Produced by Dear Media

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a DR Media production.

0:06.5

Hey guys, welcome to season two episode two. Other than freaking out right now because I can't

0:12.9

log into any of my Instagram accounts and can't give you stories. I'm really excited to be

0:21.2

recording this second solo for the second episode. We're going to talk about a few things.

0:30.0

One is toxic friendships. Basically, I mean, everyone has had them. I've had them. I recently wrote

0:38.8

in my advice to myself when I was 22 to, you know, not that that girl that you go out with is not

0:47.6

your friend. So basically, and also they're drilling above as usual, they're never not drilling. So

0:53.6

if you hear that, I'm sorry. But basically, I used to go out with this girl when I had just

0:59.7

graduated from college and she was a year older. All her friends were in relationships at the time.

1:07.1

So she needed people to go out with and I introduced her to all my friends and really made sure that,

1:13.2

you know, she was having a good time and had people and very quickly, she, I had been like,

1:22.4

hooking up with this guy at the time and I would always talk to her about him and she would talk to

1:27.2

me about this guy that she was hooking up with. And then we ended up going on a trip and I wasn't

1:33.3

hooking up with the guy anymore. We had like, just kind of ended, but there were still feelings there.

1:38.7

She ended up flirting with the guy and then ended up dating him. So obviously, I'm not one of those

1:45.0

like blame the girl types. But like, if you talk to someone every day about a guy and then they go

1:51.6

and date them, like, that's pretty fucking nuts. So yeah, that girl was not my friend at all.

1:58.6

Ironically, she ended up with a guy who was also my ex, which is hilarious. But anyway, so, you know,

2:08.0

toxic friendships, like they can happen to the best of us. And also, friends can go through toxic

2:16.1

times with you as well. And like, it can change if they work on themselves, but it also

2:23.9

could not change if they don't. I have a friend who I'm still really close with today who,

2:29.3

at one point, we had a toxic friendship. I felt as if she only wanted to hear the bad stuff that

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