Fan Mail Friday #61 | Shocked!

The Art of Charm

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Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 6 May 2016

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this episode: How do you deal with success anxiety when you find yourself deviating from an ambitious schedule? A disappointed Christian listener begs to differ with some advice Jordan gave to a curious virgin in Fan Mail Friday #60. Your boss keeps hounding you to take a managerial job you don't really want. The kicker: you're a woman, and you get the impression he doesn't want to hike your wages to match what a male in a similar role at your company makes. What's your next move? As an outsider, how do you know when to engage your significant other's family when they start having a drunken domestic incident? Can you ever fit in with your coworkers when most of them enjoy gossiping and office games while at work, and you're more of the type who prefers to work hard and leave the office when you're done? If you're a woman who's undergone a double mastectomy, how do you tell a guy about it before "surprising" him in the moment? Check out Jordan's latest video about a simple notecard exercise that can help you find a mentor here. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-61-shocked/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	Hey everyone, time for fan mail Fridays. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with producer Jason
0:05.5	DeFilippo. We'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you
0:09.6	kick the weekend off right. If you're new to the Art of Charm podcast, this isn't a great place to
0:14.0	start. Most of our content is more in-depth and longer format, so check out the best of at the
0:18.9	Art of Charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the Art of Charm.com slash toolbox.
0:25.1	There we've got the fundamentals of body language and nonverbal communication, attraction,
0:29.2	negotiation, networking, and everything else we teach here at the Art of Charm. We'll send all
0:34.1	of this to your inbox if you text Charm that's CHARMED to 33444. All right, let's cut to it.
0:41.4	Hey AOC, I've been listening to your podcast for six months now and have gained valuable knowledge
0:45.9	in the realm of social dynamics. I've recommended your podcast to multiple friends looking to
0:50.8	increase their social activity. So thank you for all that you do. I hope you would do me the favor
0:55.6	of giving me your take on dealing with success anxiety. Long story short, I come from humble beginnings
1:01.6	and aspire to break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck and being a victim of the loss of control
1:06.7	that my family has let themselves fall victim to. I'm 22 years old and at a point where I need to
1:12.1	start giving 100% towards my goals. Yet I feel a disconnect and struggle with being able to quote
1:18.0	unquote let go, live in the moment and be fully present in situations such as spontaneously going
1:23.6	out with friends or doing things that were not scheduled in my plan of the day that would deviate
1:28.4	from achieving my goals. I'm constantly thinking about how my decisions will affect me the next day.
1:34.2	For example, not getting enough sleep or being inefficient during my 5am daily workout due to the
1:39.2	previous days deviations from my plan day. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this email.
1:44.2	I love your content and hope to hear from you soon. Best regards, successful of anxiety.
1:50.0	I totally understand what you mean here. I'm not going to tell you to ditch your friends and
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