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I've been listening to your podcast from Austin, Texas for about a year and it has become part of my morning routine

Thank you. I'm writing because I need some help

I have lived with my best friend for about a year and it has been a great experience

We're both very chill and don't fight about anything

We've actually known each other for seven years, but we have very different views on almost everything

She's religious conservative doesn't find traveler exploring beneficial, etc

I like to surround myself with people who are different than me because I think it keeps my mind open and accepting of others

But I'm at a point where I want to be surrounded by people who push and inspire me

She's expressed she wants to get into the Austin fashion scene

And I've told her it's a small community and I'd go to any event with her and I've even invited her to events

I think would be good for her to go to she's made no effort to move forward

I've pushed and encouraged her in the past and have seen her succeed

But I'd have to be here cheerleader 24-7 so I've stopped

I like to help and connect the people in my life, but she's frustrating me

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