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This Is Uncomfortable

Family secrets

This Is Uncomfortable

Marketplace

Business, News

4.63.6K Ratings

🗓️ 4 November 2021

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Matthew Chow spent his adult life trying to build a close relationship with his estranged father. But just when he felt like he made real progress, his father passed away. In the will he found a secret his father had kept buried for decades — one that sent Matthew on a monthslong journey that  changed how he thought about not only his father, but the very idea of family.


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“This Is Uncomfortable” is Reema Khrais, Donna Tam, Megan Detrie, Peter Balonon-Rosen, Camila Kerwin, Phoebe Unterman, Marque Greene and Serena Chow.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey all, it's Zirima.

0:04.4

So I'm actually going to hand off this week's show to someone else on the team.

0:08.1

For months, Serena Chow has been working on a story about a family secret.

0:13.4

When she first told us this story, we all found it incredibly remarkable.

0:18.0

It's about a secret her dad discovered that would not only redefine his childhood, but his

0:23.5

entire family.

0:26.0

Here's Serena.

0:27.8

Growing up, my dad Matthew was never that close to his father.

0:32.2

His parents divorced when he was five, and after that, my grandpa became the sort of

0:36.6

elusive figure in my dad's life.

0:39.3

But there was one thing my dad could count on, like clockwork.

0:43.7

Every year without fail, my grandpa's stylist always sent him a birthday card.

0:48.7

That is until my dad's 40th birthday.

0:51.8

That year, no card came, not on the day or the next week or the week after.

0:58.3

So when it went about almost two weeks that I hadn't heard from him.

1:04.1

And after many repeated calls to his home, I got concerned.

1:09.5

Silas lived alone.

1:10.8

So my dad called the property managers for his father's apartment complex and asked them

1:15.1

to check on him.

1:16.6

A couple hours later, they called back.

1:21.7

And they said, we found him at his desk.

1:24.9

My dad had passed away.

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