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People are brought into your family and people are brought into my family

For better or for worse, Allah brought them together for a purpose

Everything he does is for a purpose. Sometimes you look at your brother. You're like, how are you my brother?

Sometimes people look at their parents like seriously, you're my parents like I'm nothing like you. How are you my parents?

Sometimes you wonder like if we weren't family

I don't know if I would have anything to do with you or would want to have anything to do with you

But Allah put people together for a purpose

He knows exactly who you know put in whose family and who to connect and tie to each other genetically

In fact, he even planned for who should be your in-laws in Allah. He would not let you know your own

He planned for that too

Now all of that can feel like a big trial

But if I if I contemplate this I have a certain way I need to find the blessing in it

And I cannot find the blessing in it unless I look look at everything purposefully

Maybe behind this conflict I need to be purposeful and find the right thing to do the right things to say to fix this conflict

Allah talks about people who really believe in him and he says and those who do facade on the opposite side

He says

They cut apart what Allah commanded to keep together like families are hard to keep together

You know spouses are hard to keep together kids are hard to keep together the conflicts between siblings can be very intense

The conflicts between parents and kids can be very intense the contact between your family and your in-laws family can be very intense

Those are not small conflicts

But in all of those conflicts if I look at that purposefully if I look at you know

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