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I am Kyra Carlin and I am so excited to bring you this week's episode.

And it is going to be talking about finding your reason why you're

stopping yourself. So I can think of times where I want something really bad and I find a way

to get it. Where is if I think I want something, I'll find an excuse. And I think this goes with anything

that you have in your life, if it's your health or your fitness, whatever it may be. You find

yourself giving yourself the leniency of quitting or failing because you are not willing to put in

the hard work. Right. So I was told today and a couple

times that I am obsessed with success. I am obsessed with A, B, and C. I'm obsessed with doing more.

I'm excess with doing better. And at first, I was like, why do they keep saying that? And it's because I don't put a line

in the sand what I am willing to do or stop in order to reach my goals. So before, I would write down

or talk about or think or dream or say things that I was wanting to work towards,

but it wasn't actually working towards them because I didn't feel like that extra effort

was actually going to make a difference. So if I just don't work on it, if I don't put forth

the effort, it's going to be okay if I fail, right? So I have found what's crazy is that we all want to be

successful. You want to be successful at home. You want to be a good wife. You want to be a good mom.

You want to be a good coworker. All the things that you're trying to succeed at. Yet we're not actually

willing to look at the things that we're not

doing. So if someone's telling you, oh, like I did this, you want to come back at them with how

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