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🗓️ 20 December 2023
⏱️ 53 minutes
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In this episode, John Kim and Damona Hoffman discuss the concept of fairy tales and how it relates to love, dating, and relationships. They explore the myths and beliefs that often hold people back from finding true compatibility. They also discuss the role of self-help jargon, the rise of emotional intelligence in younger men, and the integration of best practices in dating.
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Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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0:00.0 | Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own |
0:04.3 | rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life |
0:08.9 | lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose |
0:16.5 | because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. |
0:21.6 | I'm super excited about today's episode because we're going to talk about |
0:26.7 | fucking fairy tales and what I mean by that is the old blueprint being torn down creating lots of new systems, |
0:41.2 | models, the way that we love, find love, date, all of that stuff. And with me today is Love and |
0:48.4 | Dating Coach. Rockstar, Domona Hoffman, who's been on my podcast before, by the way. |
0:56.2 | Thank you for having me back. |
0:57.4 | Yeah. |
0:58.4 | Good to know, I haven't worn out my welcome yet. |
1:01.3 | No, no, I would have you you more and the next one we do have to do |
1:05.2 | an in person which is become my new favorite thing. So this thing that you've given birth to this book has been inside you for three years. |
1:17.0 | Yeah, longer than any of my children. |
1:20.0 | Yeah, let me ask you this. Let's start with, so her book is called F the Fairy Tale, which I love. I love the title, I love the message, the flag you're waving. What what is the fairy tale because that's a long story no? |
1:37.5 | The fairy tale is really any belief that you're holding on to that is a remnant of the past that doesn't necessarily serve you in the future |
1:46.8 | you're building. |
1:49.4 | What are some examples of fairy tales you think in our society when it comes to love, dating, marriage, all this. |
1:57.0 | I will say I originally this was really built around the myths that I see people coming to me with when they start coaching or when they |
2:05.7 | listen to my podcast dates and mates. |
2:08.2 | I was hearing all of these broken beliefs and I initially John I wanted there to be like 15 myths but my publisher was like |
2:17.1 | can you narrow it down a little bit yeah so I really identified the four biggest myths that keep people stuck and the first |
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