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We Met At Acme

F*** it, get a divorce ft. Steve Kane

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2019

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Steve and I talk about how to know if you should get a divorce, if you're unhappy in a moment vs unhappy in general, ages 26 vs 56, how much luck plays into relationships, having the same problems in different partnerships, if marriage was an 8 year contract, women who propose to men, when is the right time to divorce when you have kids, what men are like when women aren't around, and much more!
Get Steve's book, F*** It. Get A Divorce: A Guide For Optimists: https://amzn.to/2P3VoIn
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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:03.2

Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I'm so thrilled to be here today with author Steve

0:09.6

Kane from Fuck It. Got a divorce. Hello, great to be here. Hey Steve. So how are you today?

0:17.5

I'm fantastic today. I'm really excited to be here. Good. Cool. We're excited to have you. So

0:22.0

how old are you and where are you from? I am all of 56 years of age and I live in Boston Mass

0:29.1

and I grew up outside of Boston. Very cool. I went to Boston University. So pretty. A fellow

0:33.6

traveler. Yeah. Excellent. Yeah, exactly. I went to NYU. Oh, did you? Yes. So we switched.

0:38.8

Yes. Awesome. And let's talk a little bit about your book and the inspa. Well first,

0:46.4

obviously I have to know when is your birthday? August 4th, or Malio.

0:50.2

Malio with the same birthday as Obama. Actually, that is true. And maybe even the same year, I think.

0:57.5

Really? Yeah. That's that means a lot. Yeah. Yeah. It has to be important. Yeah. He hasn't reached out

1:02.9

to me yet, but I'm standing standing by. You're on the list for sure. I actually just finished

1:07.7

becoming by Michelle Obama. I haven't really yet. It was phenomenal. If you do the audiobook,

1:12.6

she actually reads it herself. So I really highly recommend. Okay. Cool. But speaking of books,

1:18.0

let's talk about yours. So is this your first book that you've written? It is my first book. Yes.

1:24.0

I've worked briefly as a professional writer, a journalist, but this is my first book.

1:30.4

And what was the inspiration behind, fuck it, get a divorce? Were you at some point in an

1:37.2

unhappy marriage yourself? Yeah. I am divorced. I was married for over 20 years. And my marriage

1:47.7

ended in divorce. It was largely a good marriage. And my ex-wife is a fantastic person.

1:55.4

And we're still, you know, friendly. We had this horrible divorce, though. And the end of the

2:01.3

relationship was really an unfortunate chapter, especially given how, you know, on balance good

2:07.7

everything was for a good long time. Right. And going through that unpleasant experience, I had a

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