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Preacher Boys Podcast

Exposing Toxic Lies About Masculinity Taught in Church

Preacher Boys Podcast

Eric Skwarczynski

Documentary, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, True Crime, Christianity

4.6701 Ratings

🗓️ 13 July 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

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The rise of toxic conservative “alpha male” content I have seen online doesn’t surprise me.


And it’s also no surprise that many Gen Z men who consume this type of content are currently finding themselves being drawn to religious communities at a higher rate than women.


Many fundamentalist Christian churches treat rigid patriarchal beliefs as inseparable from their faith.


Unfortunately "boys rule, girls drool" makes up a big chunk of their theology.


Chapters

00:00 The Link Between Toxic Alpha Males and Fundamentalist Christianity

01:28 The Top 10 Lies I Was Taught About Masculinity

03:09 Listener Stories

04:08 Lust, Shame, and Purity Culture

06:20 Sermons That Reinforce Sexist Theology

09:13 When Women Get Blamed for Men’s Sin

12:16 The Role of Modesty in Victim-Blaming

17:19 “What Were You Wearing?” and the Exhibit That Says It All

21:31 Pastors Who Preach Women’s Responsibility

24:25 How Women Become Both the Temptation and the Cure

25:44 Reframing Bathsheba: A Story Misused

27:36 Modern Preaching and the Policing of Women

29:36 Obedience, Headship, and Control

33:11 “She’s Fulfilled by Submission”

37:04 “I Own My Wife”: The Language of Possession

38:59 Theology That Traps Victims in Abuse

40:19 Final Thoughts and An Invitation to Speak Out


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0:00.0

The rise of toxic, regressive, conservative-leaning alpha-male content that you see online

0:06.7

doesn't really surprise me. And it's no surprise to me that the Gen Z men who are consuming

0:11.4

content from, you know, the alpha-male kind of red-pilled creators like Fresh and Fit or Andrew

0:17.5

Tate are being drawn to religious communities at a higher rate than women right now.

0:22.4

The reality is that many fundamentalist Christian churches treat rigid patriarchal beliefs as inseparable

0:27.4

from their faith. And when you look at the content of what's being preached in churches

0:31.0

and you see the misogynistic content from, you know, alpha male influencers online,

0:36.5

there's a lot of synergy and crossover between those

0:39.3

messages. The sad truth is that in many churches, boys rule, girls drool is actually like a core

0:46.0

pillar of their theology. I wouldn't get my theology from a woman. How do mind if mama teaches

0:52.0

the kids, how to mind if a strong lady and a wise woman and a gracious godly woman follows the takes the lesson from the pastor hey all you listen to me right now i still believe it'd be a cold day in hell before i get my theology from a woman i'm a preacher i wasn't mama called papa sent no woman ever got me involved in ministry i didn't follow a woman in the ministry. A woman didn't

1:11.4

write this book. Not one woman wrote the scriptures right here. A man wrote the Bible, got it from God.

1:16.2

A man hung on the cross. His name is Jesus Christ. And God called a man to lead the church here. Hey, I'm glad I'm a man.

1:23.2

A few weeks ago, I decided to go on Instagram and share 10 lies that I was taught about masculinity when I was a young man in fundamentalism, both from my own church and a plethora of male-focused conferences and books.

1:34.8

And I decided to format the post in like the most sigma, you know, alpha, like dude way that I possibly could, hoping that the algorithm gods would bless the feeds of some of the

1:47.3

Gen Z men who are consuming this content and allow that it be a different perspective.

1:51.0

And so I did my most like masculine cigar puffing post about this and shared my thoughts there.

1:58.5

I think it hit some of its intended target, but I'm still trying to

2:02.1

figure out how to reach that, that male audience with the show. Here's the 10 lies that I shared.

2:07.4

The first one I shared is that being emotional is an effeminate trait. Number two is women are by nature

2:13.0

followers. They need a man to lead them. Number three, men want sex more than women. Number four,

2:19.1

it's a wife's duty to give sex to her husband when they want it. Number five, men want respect,

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