Hey, Hey Waffle gang. I do hope you are well. My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more

relationship stories and if you do love a Reddit story, why not consider him and I'll like,

subscribe, maybe that notification bell too, you absolute cheeky so-and-so. And let's crack on

with today's first story, which comes from low stakes or a sit who says,

Would I be the a-hole if I told my ex-husband my concerns about his girlfriend?

My ex-husband and I are in our early 40s and late 30s and have been divorced for almost three years now.

While he did not want to get divorced, we separated and have

been co-parenting our two preteens amicably. He lives within five blocks of our old home, and while

we have 50-50 custody, our kids freely bounce between our places and choose how they want to spend

holidays. We've tried hard to create a sense of stability despite the change in our family

situation and have standing tune up therapy twice a year to make sure we're all comfortable with the

arrangements. His recent partner Maria 29 female has been the only one to make past the six

month mark and prior to this encounter, I would say that she makes him happy

and is a pretty reasonable lady. She has a very sweet and precocious son, nine, that we all adore

and generally I thought things were going well. I invited Maria to bring her son to my place

if she would like him to join my kids in private language classes. She accepted, and this has been

going on for a few weeks now. My kids adore him. Last week, she said something to me that was surprising.

She asked me, when I would be moving my things out so that my ex and her could be able to cohabitate.

I was taken aback and confused asking her to clarify my current home,

this home. And she nonchalantly told me, you don't need all this space for three people.

We wouldn't have space at X's current condo. Her son looked so awful and embarrassed at this point.

I was like, uh, this conversation would need to include my ex.

...