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Am I the Jerk?

Ex-Boyfriend goes to ICELAND for VACATION on MY DIME... so I canceled his RETURN FLIGHT HOME

Am I the Jerk?

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Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 22 minutes

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0:00.0

My entitled Toxic Ex-Boyfriend secretly used the flight and hotel that I had paid for that we were going to use to go to Iceland together.

0:07.6

So I decided to get some revenge by canceling his return flight home.

0:11.8

And now as a result, his entire family has turned against me.

0:14.8

And at this point, I really don't know what to do.

0:17.0

Here's what happened.

0:17.9

Okay, so pretty much, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me a month before moving in,

0:22.2

and three weeks before an Iceland trip, I planned for us, because apparently I was emotionally draining,

0:27.5

because I was still struggling with some things that he had done to me before we started dating officially.

0:32.4

Not to mention the fact that I also got a really scary message from his ex when we started dating,

0:37.2

saying that he would

0:37.9

love bomb me and then leave me. And you know what? He treated me really great for the first few months

0:42.5

of our relationship. He took me to Hawaii. He booked a trip to Japan for us next May. He got me a nice

0:48.3

promise ring. He told his family that he would marry me and that they wanted us to get married

0:52.8

in December. He even wrote me a card five days before breaking up with me about how I was the love of his life

0:59.0

and that we were getting married soon, and I was his forever and nothing would ever get in our way.

1:04.1

Well, after a bad week of breakdowns and anxiety attacks about the past, he called me

1:08.4

and broke up with me, yelling at me over the phone, as I cried

1:11.7

and pleaded how he promised to give me as much time as I needed to get over it. I was devastated,

1:17.2

but I tried to be understanding, and I reached out to him multiple times to discuss what to do

1:21.8

about the trip, as well as to arrange a time to pick up my things. Well, he didn't respond to any

1:26.8

of my messages, or give me any direct answers, and he didn't respond to any of my messages or give me

1:28.3

any direct answers. And I didn't know what was going to happen with the trip that we had

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