Ex-Boyfriend goes to ICELAND for VACATION on MY DIME... so I canceled his RETURN FLIGHT HOME
Am I the Jerk?
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🗓️ 17 November 2025
⏱️ 22 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | My entitled Toxic Ex-Boyfriend secretly used the flight and hotel that I had paid for that we were going to use to go to Iceland together. |
| 0:07.6 | So I decided to get some revenge by canceling his return flight home. |
| 0:11.8 | And now as a result, his entire family has turned against me. |
| 0:14.8 | And at this point, I really don't know what to do. |
| 0:17.0 | Here's what happened. |
| 0:17.9 | Okay, so pretty much, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me a month before moving in, |
| 0:22.2 | and three weeks before an Iceland trip, I planned for us, because apparently I was emotionally draining, |
| 0:27.5 | because I was still struggling with some things that he had done to me before we started dating officially. |
| 0:32.4 | Not to mention the fact that I also got a really scary message from his ex when we started dating, |
| 0:37.2 | saying that he would |
| 0:37.9 | love bomb me and then leave me. And you know what? He treated me really great for the first few months |
| 0:42.5 | of our relationship. He took me to Hawaii. He booked a trip to Japan for us next May. He got me a nice |
| 0:48.3 | promise ring. He told his family that he would marry me and that they wanted us to get married |
| 0:52.8 | in December. He even wrote me a card five days before breaking up with me about how I was the love of his life |
| 0:59.0 | and that we were getting married soon, and I was his forever and nothing would ever get in our way. |
| 1:04.1 | Well, after a bad week of breakdowns and anxiety attacks about the past, he called me |
| 1:08.4 | and broke up with me, yelling at me over the phone, as I cried |
| 1:11.7 | and pleaded how he promised to give me as much time as I needed to get over it. I was devastated, |
| 1:17.2 | but I tried to be understanding, and I reached out to him multiple times to discuss what to do |
| 1:21.8 | about the trip, as well as to arrange a time to pick up my things. Well, he didn't respond to any |
| 1:26.8 | of my messages, or give me any direct answers, and he didn't respond to any of my messages or give me |
| 1:28.3 | any direct answers. And I didn't know what was going to happen with the trip that we had |
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