My ex-boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and left me to go pursue her.

And now, several years later, they are begging me to be a part of their wedding party.

And despite the fact that I've told them no numerous times,

I am being inundated with phone calls and text messages from everybody,

demanding that I forgive my cheating ex-boyfriend and show up to their wedding anyways. Here's what happened.

Okay, so three years ago, my boyfriend of about one and a half years who we will call Josh for

the sake of the story, broke up with me because he had feelings for my best friend who we will call

Anna. We hung out a lot, and they said that they eventually developed feelings for one another.

They admitted that Josh had been cheating on me,

and they made a fool out of me. They made me think that everything was okay when it really was not.

If they admitted it at the time, I would have tried to be more understanding and tried to support

them. But they chose to lie. So I cut them both off. I focused on school and found a job with a

really good income. Josh and Anna

tried to reach out to me at first, telling me that they still wanted to be friends, but I blocked

them. And now, I'm living in the town next to our hometown. I got a wonderful job opportunity,

so I moved. But I liked that I was still close enough to visit my parents and other relatives.

Anyways, about a month ago,

I heard about their wedding from a mutual friend. It didn't really bother me anymore, so I just went

about my life. But about a week ago, I received a message from Anna telling me that she and Josh

were getting married and that they would like me to be a part of their wedding party. I replied by saying

congratulations, but no thank you.

I had no feelings for Josh anymore, and I'm even seeing someone else. But I don't want to celebrate

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