Evil P__n, Compartmentalization, Fear of Vomit, and Madonna Complex
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 19 May 2023
⏱️ 67 minutes
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00:00 Evil P__n
03:48 How much compartmentalization is healthy?
09:20 Casual use of disordered terms
21:09 Treating emetophobia
26:19 Madonna complex
37:45 OPP
38:47 Diagnosing disorders before full brain development
41:36 Theodore Millon & personality disorders
42:50 Parenting a child with antisocial personality disorder
46:26 Can someone be codependent & dependent?
53:02 Being flexible with OCPD & practicing self-awareness
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May 19, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | Hey dessert listeners, I thought I would do some additional spring cleaning and answer your |
| 0:06.0 | patron emails over the past number of months. Patron Billy from Texas he wrote in and asked, |
| 0:11.5 | I'm a 26 year old male and I have had a history of going down some dark roads when it comes to |
| 0:17.4 | pornography. I watch some stuff that I have a hard time forgiving myself for. I basically broke |
| 0:23.7 | my moral code and it made me feel evil. I don't think at my core I'm an evil person |
| 0:29.4 | but I can't seem to forgive myself for what I did. I lost all my friends and tried to avoid |
| 0:35.4 | everyone because I'm so ashamed of what I did. No one got hurt in the video and it wasn't illegal |
| 0:41.6 | but I don't want to say more than that. I've never told anyone my secrets and I feel very very |
| 0:46.8 | alone. How should one go about forgiving themselves if they feel they've done something wrong |
| 0:51.6 | and they can't move past it? And it's causing great distress and they just feel like an awful |
| 0:56.5 | human being who deserves nothing good to happen to them and of email. Okay, so if I just answer |
| 1:02.8 | the question as it's presented, forgiveness is a process, it's a journey, it's an exploration |
| 1:09.1 | and therapy can sometimes be necessary. So I don't have much more to say than that unless I knew |
| 1:16.7 | what you were talking about. But the premise of your question I'm a little confused about, |
| 1:21.7 | you say that you watched some pornography that was not harmful to anyone and was not illegal |
| 1:31.7 | but you basically broke your moral code and it makes you feel evil and you've lost all your |
| 1:38.0 | friends and you avoid everyone even though they don't know that you watched it because you say |
| 1:43.6 | I haven't told anyone my secrets and I feel very alone. You say I lost all my friends. I |
| 1:48.8 | from the sound of it, it sounds like you lost all your friends because you avoided all of them. |
| 1:53.4 | It just sounds like no one knew you watched this video. So if no one was harmed in the video |
| 1:59.2 | and it's not illegal, then what are we talking about here? There's a possibility that you watch |
| 2:05.2 | something that is ethically and morally fine but you've internalized anti-sex or anti-prinography |
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