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Everything We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Periods

Culture Study Podcast

Culture Study Podcast

Arts, Society & Culture

4.5789 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

This isn’t a bleak episode about period pain. Yes, we talk a LOT about death cramps — and all sorts of other symptoms that accompany menstruation. But we also talk a lot about how ridiculous it is that we don’t talk about these things — at least not publicly, and often not even with our close friends and family members. Kate Helen Downey, host of the incredible new podcast Cramped, joins me to talk very openly about all the things we usually don’t talk about and why. I learned so much in this episode. But I also laughed a lot, too. Pain isn’t funny, but hanging out with others who get it — it’s like a giant, glorious sigh of relief.Thanks to the sponsors of today’s episode!Get $75 off the Mill food recycler at Mill.com/CULTURE.Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/CULTURE.Head to Graza.co and use promo code CULTURE to get 10% off of TRIO which includes Sizzle, Frizzle, and Drizzle, and get to cookin’ your next chef-quality meal!Show Notes:Listen to Cramped (if you go to the website, there are also full transcripts and citations!)Learn more about Kate’s work here, and follow her on Instagram and TikTokThe collection of readers’ fibroid experiences I published on Culture StudyThe INCREDIBLE theme song from Cramped (by Farideh)The Culture Study thread I mention re: menopauseThe New Yorker olive oil profile I mentioned in the Graza adSteve Sando’s The Bean Book (where Bobby got the BIG WHITE BEAN recipe)We’re currently looking for your questions for future episodes about:TEXAS Culture, MONTANA Culture, and MONTREAL/Québécois Culture for our ongoing culture-of-place series (different eps don’t worry)Evangelical Summer Camp, past and presentHow/Why Private Equity is Fucking Everything UpThe intersection of technology and parentingCan we have a smart conversation about Katy Perry??Anything you need advice or want musings on for the AAA segment. You can ask about anything, it’s literally the name of the segment!As always, you can submit them (and ideas for future eps) hereFor this week’s discussion: This is a BIG FEELINGS episode, so tell us where this discussion led you.

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0:00.0

So I was 14. I had gotten my period before this. Like I had maybe had one or two like starter periods that were, you know, very, very light flow, like enough to be like, oh, you got your first period, but not like the full experience.

0:19.3

And I was in eighth grade science class and I started getting like really sweaty.

0:29.0

I started having full body sweats.

0:31.5

My stomach really hurt.

0:33.3

I couldn't figure out like what was going on, but I felt like I might have to throw up.

0:36.8

And so I asked to go to the bathroom and realize as I was going to stand up, I couldn't figure out like what was going on, but I felt like I might have to throw up. And so I asked to go to the bathroom and realize as I was going to stand up, I couldn't stand up all the way.

0:42.7

I had to kind of like hunch and waddle like out of the classroom.

0:49.0

And I just have a very clear memory of having one hand on like the lockers in the hallway and trying to like walk

0:56.1

down the hallway and having to stop and like bend over and wait for the wave of nausea and cramping

1:04.4

to pass and halfway to the bathroom I just was like I don't think I'm going to make it to the

1:09.7

bathroom I'm going to go to the nurse's office instead and the halls were empty and I was, I don't think I'm going to make it to the bathroom. I'm going to go to the

1:11.3

nurse's office instead and the halls were empty and I was like, I don't know if I can make it.

1:15.9

Like I don't know if I can get there. Just like, how do I move? I had never felt pain this bad.

1:21.8

And I had had a friend a few months before who had had her appendix out. And I was like, oh, this must be my appendix

1:31.6

person. Totally. Totally. And so I had this like fantasy of like, I'm going to get to the

1:36.2

nurse's office. She's going to see how much pain I'm in. I'm going to tell her where it hurts.

1:41.3

She's going to call an ambulance. I'm going to go get emergency surgery.

1:45.5

Like, they're going to tell me what's happening.

1:47.4

And then I got to the nurse's office.

1:49.5

And she asked me a couple questions.

1:51.6

I threw up in her bathroom.

1:53.4

And she was like, oh, are you on your period?

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