If you tell me to grow up and I do and I can't do what I want

Then what was I growing up for?

I might as well just be a kid if you're going to continue to tell me what to do.

I really feel that sometimes in relationships

There's a grown-up who just likes to be the grown-up.

But I'm a grown-up too.

And if I'm a grown-up too, why do you get to be the bigger grown-up?

I know.

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We're just going off the rails because we have just, we're sick of it.

So I went, so I started a little bit of like that, like I had a, when you have a moment and you're like, okay, I'm ready to clean. Yeah. You just go. Yes. So I went. But then I started like seeing some things that were like, they were like clothes, but I already had a garbage bag going. Yeah. And I have another garbage bag.

So you put them all in.

And Mark's like, but there's things.

And I go, don't ask me again. It's garbage day. Just throw it out. I don't want to see it again. Don't bring things back into my house. Oh. Every time there's an act. Because I don't like when you have like the giveaway. Ugh. You see, I have to do just so many returns.

And like, oh, and the returns, the giveaways, the donations, the garbage, the recycling.

Just donate everything.

Like, you see, I have to do just so many returns. And like, oh, and the returns, the giveaways, the donations, the garbage, the recycling. Just donate everything. Like, you know what I mean? I know, but then I can't put garbage in the donation bag. So it's just like, sometimes I'm just like, there was a sweater and there was a belt. And I said, that's garbage. I'm sorry. I can't. And he disagreed. I said, don't ask me twice. Because he's not going to do anything with it.

Well, sometimes he's like, you can't throw all that up. Yes, I can. What would he do with it? It will sit in a corner. You know, it's super interesting. Nothing. I would think other people are too. I'm hearing it. And I'm going to blame the weather because I don't like this attitude. I don't like my attitude right now. It's my attitude is not my attitude. I don't like it. I mean, it's good because it's like, uh, e, you know? It's fun, E. Is it? It's funny. You know, the other day, you know, I get a bit naughty sometimes.

I told you this and I was at, I was out. And someone said, you should go do that. I'm not going to do that. Yeah. Did I tell you this? Do what? So I was out and someone was like, oh, you should really, like I was talking to someone. Yeah. And they're like, you should really go, you should make sure you go say hi to that person.

And I, like, I was talking to someone. Yeah. And they're like, you should really go, you should make sure you go say hi to that person. And I was like, to the person, my friend that I was with him, I'm not going to say hi to that person. You're not telling me to go, you can't tell me what to do. I'm a grown up. And, you know, I grew up. I really do believe this. if you tell me to grow up and I do and I can't do what I want.

Then what was I growing up for?

I might as well just be a kid if you're going to continue to tell me what to do.

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