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The Anxious Achiever

Even Public Figures Have Social Anxiety

The Anxious Achiever

Morra Aarons-Mele

Mental Health, Management, Careers, Health & Fitness, Business

4.7600 Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2021

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Host Morra Aarons-Mele speaks with New York Times bestselling author Lindsey Pollak about how she maintains a public speaking career while dealing with anxiety, and why she’s finally opening up about it.

Transcript

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0:00.0

I don't think I'm socially anxious. I think I'm a raging perfectionist. And my perfectionism

0:07.8

means that I am constantly calibrating how interesting you are in our conversation because

0:13.5

I'm desperately afraid of making you dislike me or be unhappy. And so I'm constantly watching

0:19.7

you for those kids. I think where maybe anxiety is a

0:24.7

little bit of a superpower is that I'm so attuned to that. I'm more Aaron's Meeley and this is the

0:34.1

anxious achiever. We look at stories from business leaders who have dealt with anxiety, depression,

0:39.3

or other mental health challenges,

0:41.3

how they fell down,

0:42.3

how they pick themselves up,

0:43.3

and how they hope workplaces can change in the future.

1:01.0

Today's guest has done over 2,000 speeches in her career. It's what she does.

1:02.0

She is a capital E expert.

1:04.0

But she still gets anxious before her talks.

1:07.0

And the meet and greets around her speeches, those are so hard. And after she's done,

1:13.4

she often worries she said the wrong thing. I wanted to have a conversation with a public

1:18.0

person who has anxiety because, let's face it, public speaking is hard. Anytime you stand up

1:25.2

in front of other people and put yourself out there, you're taking a risk.

1:29.6

And that is hard.

1:31.4

Networking is hard.

1:33.0

Interviews are hard.

1:34.4

And frankly, a lot of us are out of practice.

1:37.3

When you stand up in front of a room, you're asking people to like you and trust you.

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