Hey everyone, today's guest is the wonderful Ivana Lynch, who most of you know as Luna

Lovegood from the Harry Potter movies.

I could have talked with Evie for hours, but after getting to know each other, we turn

our attention to answering calls and offering our best unqualified advice.

Our first conversation is with a listener wondering if it's time to move on from a very

intense on-again, off-again relationship.

Then we talk with a young PhD student who, after dealing with a perfect storm of traumatic

events, wonders how to reconnect with a lost friend.

After getting to know Evie and realizing how wise she is, I just can't wait to read

her new book, The Opposite of Butterfly Hunting.

If you have a question and would like to talk with us, please look for the link at

Unqualified.com, I would love to hear from you.

Alright, everyone.

nice to meet you. It's so nice to meet you. Thank you so much for doing this with me today.

Oh my god, it's such a pleasure. I've been a fan of this podcast for years, so it's pretty surreal.

Yeah. Thank you. Really excited. Thank you. Now I love it. You really like

inspired me with my podcast, it was just totally different. I do like a vegan podcast, but

I just love the warm atmosphere you create and all the fun and all that. And like, that's the kind

of podcasts I like where it's just you make people feel like welcome them friends. Thank you. Well,

I was listening to your podcast and I wanted to ask you a few questions. Well, first of all,

how have you found the podcasting experience? My god, it's so hard. It is so much work.

There's so many elements to it. It was definitely at first who were like, oh, we just make it small,

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