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The One You Feed

Ethan Kross on How to Harness the Chatter in Your Head

The One You Feed

Eric Zimmer

Education, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Buddhism, Mental Health

4.62.5K Ratings

🗓️ 10 December 2021

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Ethan Kross is one of the world’s leading experts on controlling the conscious mind. He is an award-winning professor at the University of Michigan and the Ross School of Business and also the Director of the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory. In addition to countless television appearances, Ethan’s research has been featured in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and many others. 

In this episode, Ethan and Eric talk about his book, Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It.

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Ethan Kross and I Discuss How to Harness the Chatter in Our Head and…

  • His book, Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It
  • How we have both emotional and cognitive needs when dealing with the “chatter” in our heads
  • Common triggers for internal chatter are uncertainty and lack of control
  • The three main categories of tools to work with chatter
  • Learning to zoom out and broaden our perspective
  • Distance self-talk is talking to yourself like you’d talk to another person
  • Temporal distancing (mental time travel) 
  • Expressive writing about negative experiences
  • Using your imagination to replay a past experience to gain objectivity
  • Harnessing our internal chatter rather than silencing it
  • How to think about thinking and what we can and cannot control
  • Being aware of how easy some of these tools are to implement
  • Creating if/then plans increases the likelihood you’ll remember to use the tools
  • Environmental tools and the benefits of getting outside in nature 
  • How cleaning and organizing our physical space impacts our mental state

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Transcript

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0:00.0

When the problem isn't happening to us, we can be really shrewd.

0:04.4

But when it's happening to us, we can often make bad decisions, and that's where the power of distance resides.

0:18.8

Welcome to the One New Feed.

0:20.8

Throughout time, great thinkers have recognized the importance of the thoughts we have.

0:25.4

Quotes like garbage in, garbage out, or you are what you think, ring true.

0:31.0

And yet, for many of us, our thoughts don't strengthen or empower us.

0:35.3

We tend toward negativity, self-pity, jealousy, or fear.

0:40.0

We see what we don't have instead of what we do.

0:42.9

We think things that hold us back and dampen our spirit.

0:46.3

But it's not just about thinking.

0:48.3

Our actions matter.

0:49.8

It takes conscious, consistent, and creative effort to make a life worth living.

0:54.6

This podcast is about how other people keep themselves moving in the right direction.

0:59.0

How they feed their good wolf.

1:15.6

This holiday season, 12 strangers, 12 tales.

1:19.5

Something was out there.

1:21.8

Whatever it is, it's ravenous.

1:23.6

It was the last person to see you alive.

1:25.8

12 Ghosts starring Malcolm McDowell.

1:28.3

Who are you?

1:29.9

I'm the in-keeper.

1:31.4

Presented in immersive 3D audio, a co-production of I Heart Radio and Grim and Mild from Erin Manky.

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