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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Invites Us to Imagine Our Preferred Future

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media

Mental Health, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education, Health & Fitness

4.715.6K Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

We all know the difference between being alive and feeling alive. The state of the world has many of us struggling with threat and uncertainty, both of which immediately constrict our imagination and our ability to face the unknown with curiosity and discovery. Join Esther Perel for a live conversation on the Vox Media Podcast Stage at South By Southwest with futurist Amy Webb and innovation expert Frederik Pferdt as they discuss how the big changes of today will shape our relationships of tomorrow. To watch the video of this episode go to https://www.youtube.com/@estherperel/podcasts To watch Amy Webb's 2025 Emerging Tech Trend Report from SXSW visit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oT33_MrqyHo To read Frederik Pferdt's book What's Next is Now: How to Live Future Ready visit https://whatsnextisnowthebook.com Want to learn more? Receive monthly insights, musings, and recommendations to improve your relational intelligence via email from Esther: https://www.estherperel.com/newsletter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

What you are about to hear is a conversation recorded live from the Vox Media podcast stage at South by Southwest, brought to you by SmartSheet. Welcome.

0:22.6

So here is the story that I need to tell you.

0:29.6

This session was supposed to be a session between me and Dr. Peter Attia.

0:36.6

And we titled the session,

0:38.2

Why Would You Want to Live Longer if You're So Unhappy?

0:42.3

It's this question that I asked him a few years ago

0:45.2

when he was writing his book, Outlive,

0:47.9

and it prompted him to rethink some of his definition of longevity

0:52.2

and to add a chapter on the importance of emotional health

0:56.7

in his thinking about overall health. And then Dr. Atia had a family emergency, his father is very ill

1:05.7

and he had to counsel right after his presentation here actually. So I had to rethink what will I do and

1:13.6

with whom would I like to be in conversation. And I also thought, you know, here's this conversation

1:19.1

on longevity that we typically think of within the world that we're living in. But then I went

1:24.8

to listen to Amy Webb and she was, you were, I'm going to talk to you,

1:32.3

you were presenting a whole other world in which one I had to project myself in, and I had a range

1:42.0

of emotions as I was listening to this presentation.

1:45.6

Highs and lows and attractions and disgust and pulls and pushes.

1:50.6

It was like a whole range of experiences of the world in which I hope to live in longer.

1:56.4

So it was all coming together.

1:58.9

And then I met Frederick Ferd, who is explicitly a non-futurist.

2:05.0

And I thought, that would be an amazing conversation between a futurist and a non-futurist,

2:10.7

between someone who makes predictions and someone who helps us imagine.

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