We are not obligated to be in relationships where there's not some metric of reciprocity.

It doesn't mean that you're equally contributing.

It means that what you're getting is valuable the same way as what she is getting is valuable to her.

And I'll tell you why this is important.

Because if you don't have a boundary of reciprocity, it only leads to resentment,

contention, bitterness, and animosity

because you're doing everything and they're not doing anything. So you better start identifying

it. It's the boundary of reciprocity. Kip, what's up, man? Good to see you this weekend.

Did you have a good weekend? I did. This week, but did you have a good weekend?

Smalltown, Utah. I went to Monroe, went to the hot springs, hung out with Mr. Matt Jenkins and his family.

That was our mini-adventure for January. Excellent. It was good. They just commercialized the hot springs down here. There's some hot springs, uh, in Leverican.

And a company bought the property. He was on private property. He was privately owned. And then a company bought it and they turned it into Zion River hot springs or something. And it's supposed to be really cool. But I'm like, man, I used to, I remember hopping the fence and sneaking into the hot springs when it was just the hot springs and now it's

got spas and jacuzzis it's all commercialized i'm like oh man ruin that one yeah there's something

to be said for the old days right where it like even these hot springs in monroe there's some ones

there's ones that are like man-built pools.

It's just dirt.

You just plop in there and cook like a lobster.

And it's good times.

There's something to be said for that.

I miss those days, man.

I think so, too.

There was a place just about 30 minutes south of me called Little Jamaica,

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