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The Life Stylist

Eroticized Woundology: Integrate the Masculine & Win the Inner/Outer Gender War w/ Kelly Brogan #510

The Life Stylist

Luke Storey

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Alternative Health, Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality

4.7 • 2.1K Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2023

⏱️ 139 minutes

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Summary

I’m excited to welcome back Dr. Kelly Brogan, MD, a four-time podcast guest and community favorite. Kelly is a holistic psychiatrist, who is on a mission to help people reclaim their sovereignty and embodiment. 

She’s also founded the online healing program, Vital Mind Reset, and authored bestselling books, A Mind of Your Own, Own Your Self, and children’s book, A Time for Rain.

In today’s enlightening episode, Kelly and I discuss the polarities of the masculine and feminine, shedding victimhood, and trusting surrender. She shares her perspective on why we often eroticize wounds and fetishize disappointment and how we can transcend that mindset for good.

We also delve into the shadow of activism, the spiritual ego, and the dangerous impact of emasculating boys and young men. Kelly also shares her personal journey reconnecting with herself after divorce and her evolving experience with motherhood. 

Every time Kelly joins us on the podcast, she summons so much expansion for me – and I’m sure she’ll do the same for you. 

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MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE:

(00:24) Marrying Her Polarities

(10:37) Finding Trust in Surrender

(24:20) Fetishizing Disappointment

(29:24) The Comparative Hierarchy of Trauma

(42:21) The Shadow of Activism

(54:54) Expressions of Masculinity & Femininity

(01:11:06) The Emasculation of Boys

(01:17:49) Shedding Addiction to Approval

(01:31:35) Living in Realms of Polarities

(01:42:12) Claiming Your Yes

(01:50:34) Victimless Mothering

(02:11:56) Kelly’s Latest Projects

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Transcript

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0:18.0

The last time I saw you we were in Austin, and you were just on the near other side of divorce. They're kind of processing that in your life.

0:21.0

Where are you today, Kelly Brogan?

0:23.2

Yeah, so that's what I was telling you before we started rolling is that I was watching a

0:28.6

clip from that interview and I could just see like this layer on top of my literal face like my eyes and my

0:38.9

mouth just this I could see my own grief, you know, in my face and I feel so different now.

0:48.0

I mean, it's not even a meritocracy, like it's not like, oh, I'm better and I'm so spiritually enlightened you know but I just I feel

0:56.0

so much more in my flesh like so much more in my skin and it's been really like an extraordinary,

1:07.8

whatever it's been, year and a half,

1:09.3

something like that, of time understanding

1:16.6

understanding what happens inside of my systems

1:20.4

when I like create the container and let the energy flow through me I mean sounds

1:29.0

cliche right but I know you really were talking about like celibate windows and I mean the creative life force that I have experienced like I've learned how to dance and so and sing and I mean all of these different you know professional entrepreneurial endeavors and

1:46.2

experiences of myself as a mother these it's archetypal play you know that I haven't

1:58.0

really explored when I've been coupled and I think it's been the opportunity for me to really like marry my polarities within and we're talking about this event I have

2:08.6

coming up and how much in Miami in November it's my first live event ever and it it feels like I was like wow this feels a lot like the other

2:17.2

professional projects, you know, I've put together that are like business driven

2:22.2

It feels like a celebration and it feels like the marriage of my parts

2:26.9

for everyone to see, you know, my dark parts,

2:29.6

my taboo dimensions,

2:35.0

and they're all coming together,

2:39.0

and I'm inviting a bunch of women to celebrate with me.

2:41.6

So that feels like a culmination and that'll be I guess two

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