meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Dear Sugars

Episodes We Love: Talking About Privilege

Dear Sugars

WBUR

Sugar, Wbur, Dear, Society & Culture, Cheryl Strayed, Advice, Steve Almond, Boston

4.55.9K Ratings

🗓️ 10 January 2020

⏱️ 29 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Privilege comes in many forms: socio-economic privilege, gender privilege, heterosexual privilege, to name a few. In this episode, the Sugars reply to two letter writers who are facing different forms of privilege. They discuss with Catrice M. Jackson, a leading voice for racial justice. This episode was originally published on August 11th, 2018.

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Produced by the I-Lab at WBUR Boston.

0:05.0

The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick.

0:18.0

The sugars are here, speaking straight into your ears.

0:21.0

I'm Steve Alman.

0:22.0

I'm Cheryl Strait.

0:23.0

This is Dear Sugar's.

0:27.0

Oh dear song, won't you please?

0:34.0

Share some better sweet days with me.

0:42.0

I check my bedbugs every day.

0:50.0

Oh, and this sugar, you see in my way.

0:57.0

Hi Steve.

0:58.0

Hi Cheryl.

0:59.0

So I have a story for you many years ago.

1:03.0

I realized that I had to tell the truth about something I'd done.

1:09.0

And telling the truth meant that I was going to really, really hurt somebody I loved very deeply.

1:16.0

It also meant that I was going to have to fess up to something I deeply regretted and was ashamed of.

1:23.0

I had cheated on my husband, my first husband.

1:27.0

And you know, I think that when we think about infidelity or any of those kinds of deceptions that we sometimes carry on in relationships,

1:37.0

we think about how you try to get away with it, how you try to conceal what you've done.

1:45.0

The thing about not saying something is it feels safe to us and it often is safe in the short term.

1:51.0

Right.

1:52.0

And you know, I'd reach this juncture in my life where I realized that I couldn't do that.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from WBUR, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of WBUR and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.