Episodes We Love: Sexless Relationships, Part 2
Dear Sugars
WBUR
4.5 • 5.9K Ratings
🗓️ 7 June 2019
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
The Sugars are joined by the therapist Esther Perel to discuss a letter from a husband who is in a sexless marriage and is looking for a way to help his wife heal from trauma. This episode was originally released on September 16th, 2017.
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| 0:00.0 | Produced by the I-Land at WBUR Boston. |
| 0:07.0 | The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick. |
| 0:19.0 | The sugars are here, speaking straight into your ears. |
| 0:23.0 | I'm Steve Alman. |
| 0:24.0 | I'm Cheryl Strait. |
| 0:25.0 | This is Dear Sugar's. |
| 0:29.0 | Oh dear song, won't you please? |
| 0:35.0 | Share some little sweet days with me. |
| 0:43.0 | I check my bedbugs every day. |
| 0:51.0 | Oh and this sugar, you see in my way. |
| 0:58.0 | Hi Steve. |
| 0:59.0 | Hi Cheryl. |
| 1:00.0 | Hi Esther. |
| 1:01.0 | Yes hi. |
| 1:02.0 | Welcome to part two of our mini series on sexless relationships. |
| 1:07.0 | Those of you listeners who tuned in last week heard Esther Perrell talking with us, answering a letter about a sexless relationship. |
| 1:15.0 | And we're going to continue that conversation now. |
| 1:18.0 | Let's listen to this next letter that Steve's going to read about a similar situation with some differences written by a man. |
| 1:25.0 | Yeah, in fact we wanted to read it to you specifically, Esther, because we know that your work on intimacy directly arises from your work on trauma. |
| 1:34.0 | Yes quick. |
| 1:35.0 | Dear sugars, my wife and I have been married for over 10 years. |
| 1:39.0 | We got married as 23 year olds. |
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