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Dear Sugars

Episodes We Love: Dear Dad, It's Over

Dear Sugars

WBUR

Sugar, Wbur, Dear, Society & Culture, Cheryl Strayed, Advice, Steve Almond, Boston

4.55.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2019

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

We can't choose our parents, but we can choose whether or not to have a relationship with them. This week, the Sugars discuss parental estrangement with the help of Stephen Elliott -- founding editor of The Rumpus and author of the books “The Adderall Diaries” and “Happy Baby” -- who estranged himself from his abusive father. This episode was originally released on April 20th, 2017.

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0:00.0

Produced by the island at WBUR Boston.

0:07.0

The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick.

0:18.0

Sugar is here, the both of us, speaking straight into your ears.

0:23.0

I'm Cheryl Strait.

0:25.0

Steve Almond, this is Deer Sugar Radio.

0:28.0

Oh dear song, won't you please?

0:35.0

Yeah, some better sweet days with me.

0:43.0

I check my bedbugs every day.

0:51.0

Oh, and this sugar, you see in my way.

0:58.0

Hi Steve.

0:59.0

Hi Cheryl.

1:00.0

So we're going to talk today about parental estrangement.

1:04.0

And in some ways, this topic is a little bit of an answer, or at least a kind of, it's connected to a previous episode we did on parental alienation.

1:15.0

Something interesting happened.

1:17.0

We had answered a letter from a man who called himself broken dad.

1:21.0

And he wrote about having a long marriage and his wife got divorced.

1:27.0

And after that, his teenage daughter cut him out of her life.

1:31.0

And he felt that she had sided with her mother over him.

1:35.0

And he was hurt and broken about that.

1:38.0

And that episode went up and we got another email into our inbox.

1:42.0

Maybe I should just read it and then we can chat.

1:44.0

Oh yeah.

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