Xander and I did this exercise together and even 15 years together of a sex therapist

and her regular dude husband who talk about sex all the time who wrote a freaking book about it,

I did not know your top ways of being touched. I was very surprised with your answers.

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. Where are your hosts Vanessa?

And Xander Marin. I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you

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off plus free shipping. Hey babe, how does it feel to be viral? It feels incredible. I've never

I've never felt so good to have a virus. Actually, it feels so sick.

You really missed your chance. I did, but you know, it feels so super sick.

Yeah, so sick. Been dreaming of this sickness, the viral sickness. Too bad you actually didn't go viral.

I went viral. I did not go viral. Sadly. I'm flying, flying high on my own. We went viral

a couple of weeks ago. We had a TikTok that we made. We have a TikTok account. We don't we have

never talked about our TikTok account here on the podcast. So we are today. Here's a secret.

Zander and I don't have TikTok on our phones. Neither one of us has TikTok. We're a little bit

scared of TikTok. The privacy concerns. But our team has it. So they help post all of our TikTok.

We record videos. I do. I recently discovered that I could log into TikTok on my laptop.

So I still will. I'm in there dropping comments, dropping a comment every now and then.

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