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No One Told Us

Episode 93: Navigating the Grandparent-Parent Relationship: Boundaries, Expectations & Building Connection with Deedee Moore

No One Told Us

Rachael Shepard-Ohta

Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.9590 Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Episode 93: Navigating the Grandparent-Parent Relationship: Boundaries, Expectations & Building Connection with Deedee Moore In this episode, Rachael sits down with Deedee Moore, creator of resources for modern grandparents, to talk about the often-unspoken complexities of grandparenting in today’s world. Together, they unpack everything from holiday overwhelm to unsolicited advice and the emotional tightrope we walk as parents trying to set boundaries without creating conflict. Whether you're feeling tension around gifts, unsure how to communicate with in-laws, or just trying to figure out how to create a more supportive village, this conversation is full of practical insights and thoughtful reminders that we’re all learning as we go. Inside this episode: Why grandparenting can feel fulfilling and challenging for everyone involved How to set boundaries around gifts, advice, and time without guilt Why communication should start before the baby even arrives Navigating holiday expectations and learning to accept disappointment Why building relationships (not giving stuff) matters most Are  modern grandparents really more busy, working, or caregiving in other ways? Tips for finding the right tone and timing for hard conversations How sharing your parenting resources with grandparents can reduce confusion Simple ideas to foster meaningful bonds between grandparents and grandchildren And so much more! Mentioned in this episode: Free resource: How To Talk So Grandparents Will Listen Follow Deedee on Instagram: @morethangrand New Grandparent Essentials More Than Grand website If you enjoyed this episode, please rate 5⭐️ and write us a review! ⬇️ ✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram! 😴☁️🤎✨ Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast. Instagram | Tiktok |  Website  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to No One Told Us, the podcast that tells the truth about parenting and talks about all the stuff you wish you knew before having kids.

0:10.5

I'm your host, Rachel, and I'm so excited for today's special episode with D.D. Moore. When Dedy found out she was going to be a grandmother, she searched the internet for advice on establishing a strong relationship with her grandchildren. Wow, we love that. When she couldn't find a website that offered what she was looking

0:25.6

for, she decided to start one herself. So Didi founded more than grand, and this is a way that she

0:31.3

shares inspiration and resources for grandparents and grandparents to be so that they can understand

0:36.6

the importance of their new role.

0:38.3

On her website and social media, Dedi creates a bridge from parent to grandparent and covers topics

0:43.1

that help new parents understand trends in child care and gives meaningful ways to help people

0:49.9

connect with their grandchildren. So I'm so excited for this conversation as I was talking to you

0:54.4

before we started recording. I have done an episode on this topic once before, but it was with my

0:59.4

own parents, which is a little bit different. So I mean, my parents are great, but you can't ask

1:05.7

all the questions you might want to, right? So I'm really excited to have you today. Thank you so much for

1:10.4

being here. Oh, thank you so much for having me. I'm really excited to have you today. Thank you so much for being here.

1:11.5

Oh, thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to talk to you and provide some conversation

1:17.2

for your listeners. Absolutely. So how old are your grandchildren now? They are now five,

1:23.1

almost seven and almost nine. Oh, wow. Okay. So similar ages to my own kids. So I love that you decided to

1:29.0

just create something from nothing when you couldn't find the types of resources you were looking

1:33.4

for. So first of all, I am so curious because I think it just takes so much foresight and just

1:40.5

emotional intelligence to even start looking for something like that. So I'm curious what

1:46.2

pushed you to even look for something like that. Did you have really close relationships with your

1:50.8

kids when they were growing up? Did you have close relationships with your own grandparents? What

1:55.3

was it that inspired you to look? I think it was just that I come from a family that we really all get along. We really like to be with each other. We like to support one another. And I was just really surprised that there wasn't a resource out there for moving into this really important rule, right? I mean, grandparenting, any grandparent will tell you it's one of the most important, most fulfilling things they've ever done. And yet, it's a role nobody prepares for.

2:20.7

Like, we just assume we can do it.

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