Welcome to Love Honor and Vacuum Podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Greg War from

to love Honor and Vacuum.com where we like to talk about how to make marriage

a passionate adventure and not a giant to-do list. Last week we demolished a big argument that is very common in the

evangelical church and it goes something like this. Do not be a stumbling block for

men based on how you dress. Make sure that you're modest so you don't cause

someone to lust and we looked at how dangerous that teaching was and how it's

really very counterproductive and we tried to say here's a better way of talking

about it and this week we want to tackle another one that is very

dangerous and it's the idea of unconditional respect. I actually talked about this in a

podcast back in October and then I ended up taking down that

podcast because I said something stupid in the beginning of that podcast so I want to

revisit it and actually spend a little bit more time on it today so I'm going

to dedicate an entire podcast to what was just once a small segment.

So here we go.

I'm conditional respect.

Let's start to demolish this.

I recently said something on Instagram

where I talked about this and it went quite big so I'm

going to read to you what I said on Instagram. Unconditional respect is not a thing. Can we please stop talking about it?

Lately I have seen so many social media shares,

podcasts and pins about wives giving their husband's unconditional respect.

But respect is earned.

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