Why, hello there. This is Zander from the future, jumping in to this episode, which was recorded

a long time ago, to let you know something, which is that throughout this episode you're

going to hear us talk about a master class called Initiation 101. But we have a good news

bad news situation for you. We at this point have officially retired the Initiation 101 master

class, but only because we've turned it into something even better, which is a brand new course

called the Art of Initiation. So here's how this change came about. We put up a poll on

Instagram. It was just a casual little thing. We were asking like, are you happy with the way

initiation works in your relationship? Something like 50,000 people responded to that initial poll.

And the results were shocking. Only 17% of people said that initiation is working in their

relationship. So our minds were blown by this. And we thought we've got to go back to the

drawing board with this initiation thing, like clearly we need more resources, more help.

So we actually did a follow-up survey. We asked people to tell us more about what's going on with

initiation in their relationship. What are their frustrations? And we realized that bad initiation

is also the root cause of so many bigger issues, like low libido, mismatched libidos, loss of attraction,

infrequent sex, unpleasurable and unfulfilling sex, less non-sexual physical intimacy,

resentments, arguments, and disconnection. So we thought we need a much more comprehensive,

much deeper resource to help people address their initiation so we can also address all of these

larger issues too. So in the Art of Initiation, you will discover practical ways to create and

sustain more emotional intimacy because when you feel like roommates rather than romantic partners,

having sex just feels like a huge leap, right? You're also going to learn why differing libidos

don't need to stop you from experiencing the intimacy you both deserve. And how skilful

initiation can actually bridge the gap. How to confidently know and express exactly what turns

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