So I decided to sit down with Scott because something came across my phone.

A friend was telling me how there's friends that still hold grudges against friends

who haven't talked to them in sometimes three or four years and they still hold grudges

and still want to go to social media and post about it three or four years later.

And I was saying to Scott, he's sitting here with me. And I was saying to Scott he's sitting here with me and I was saying to Scott I've never

understood why when someone wants to leave your life and they no longer want to be around you

I can understand the immediate pain and the immediate hurt and your desire to lash out because of your emotional feeling.

But after 24 hours, I mean, I give myself 24 hours.

But after two, three years, if your day is still consumed with that person's life,

who clearly doesn't want to be a part of you

and for whatever reason the relationships decided why are you still giving it energy i've never

understood that i've i you know i've definitely been in situations and relationships where I've been the one dumped

or what have you.

And there was one time where I was, when I was living with Carol, oh my God, I love Carol.

We should call Carol.

One time I was living with Carol and I was dating a guy and he called me from vacation. It was like, you know, I decided to

get back with my ex. And initially I was like, what do you mean? Like, you know, I was completely and

fully dedicated into this relationship. You know, you're like, what happened? Like, how did this

happen? It came out of nowhere.

And then I remember sitting down and, like, literally thinking this through, and I was like,

he don't want to be with you no more.

And I think that was within minutes, if not, it was within the hour.

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