Episode 76: How Much Do You Really Want It? The Sex Drive Episode
Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
4.8 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 3 November 2022
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
Do you want a higher sex drive? Bet you said, “yes!” without thinking twice. 74% of our Instagram audience did. Most of us feel self-conscious about how rarely we desire sex, and believe that we’re supposed to have a stronger libido.
But if you’re really honest with yourself, do you truly want more desire? Only 8% of our Instagram audience said they’d do whatever it takes to have a higher sex drive. And we’ve found that whenever we offer sex drive resources to our community, very few people actually use them. (This episode contains a fascinating sneak peek at one of the biggest flops in our business!)
So what’s going on here? In this episode, we dive deep into the sex drive disconnect so many of us are struggling with. We’ll bust some of the biggest - and most damaging - sex drive myths, and give you the honest truth about libido. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of what you truly want, and a clear path on how to get there.
Links & Resources:
Episode 73: Do You Ever Owe Sex To Your Partner
Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode76
You can go to JULIECARE.CO to learn more or find Julie at your nearest Walmart today.
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| 0:00.0 | Desire is actually a luxury for the body. |
| 0:04.4 | And in that way, we sort of have to think about |
| 0:07.5 | the life that I have. |
| 0:09.5 | Does it even have the space for desire in it right now? |
| 0:14.0 | [♪ OUTRO MUSIC PLAYING [♪ |
| 0:19.5 | Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. |
| 0:22.8 | We're your host, Vanessa. |
| 0:24.2 | And Zander Marin. |
| 0:25.5 | I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience. |
| 0:28.4 | And I'm just a regular dude. |
| 0:30.1 | We share the ups and downs in our relationship |
| 0:32.2 | while giving you step-by-step techniques |
| 0:34.2 | for improving yours. |
| 0:35.8 | Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date |
| 0:38.1 | full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship |
| 0:41.5 | advice, hilarious and honest stories |
| 0:44.0 | of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors |
| 0:47.0 | and so much more. |
| 0:48.6 | It's the sex education you wish you'd had. |
| 0:52.9 | Today, we are talking about something |
| 0:55.7 | that the vast majority of us want. |
| 0:58.7 | A very common thread that we share. |
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