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Pillow Talks

Episode 72: The Lowdown On Painful Sex

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2022

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever been having intercourse and thought to yourself, “Oh, this hurts, and not in a good way…”?

Research shows that a whopping 1 in 3 vulva owners said this happened to them the LAST time that they had intercourse. But sexual pain is something that is rarely discussed, leaving so many to suffer in silence.

Nobody deserves to feel pain during sex. While the source can be complicated, sometimes a few simple tweaks can make all the difference. Let us walk you though what you may be overlooking, so we can take you from groaning in pain to moaning in pleasure.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I wanted to read that specific story,

0:02.8

because that's such an important connection

0:04.4

that a lot of people don't make.

0:06.6

Like, there is no reason to crave something

0:10.6

that is a painful, unenjoyable experience.

0:19.3

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:22.6

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:24.1

And Zander Marin.

0:25.4

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:28.3

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:30.0

We share the ups and downs in our relationship

0:32.2

while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:35.6

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date

0:38.0

full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,

0:42.1

hilarious and honest stories of what really

0:44.8

goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:48.4

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:52.8

Today we're talking about a topic that is not exactly fun,

0:56.2

but is a very important topic to talk about,

0:59.6

something that does not get talked about nearly enough.

1:02.6

And that is pain during sex.

1:06.4

Anybody can experience pain during sex

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