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Make Some Noise with Andrea Owen

Episode 633: Gaslighting, Trust, and Resilience with Robin Stern, Ph.D.

Make Some Noise with Andrea Owen

Andrea Owen

How To, Education, Self-improvement

4.7517 Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2024

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Ever wonder if you’re being gaslit by a partner, friend, or even a politician? Dr. Robin Stern is here to explain how to recognize the signs of gaslighting and take back control of your reality.  Robin Stern, Ph.D. is the co-founder and senior advisor to the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. With 30 years of experience as a licensed psychoanalyst, Robin is the leading expert on gaslighting. She’s also the author of The Gaslight Effect and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide. In this episode, Robin helps us unpack the complexities of gaslighting and its stages, explains political gaslighting, and offers some steps toward reclaiming your power. You’ll hear: The three stages of gaslighting: disbelief, defense, and depression (5:55) How gaslighters use precise manipulation to control their targets (12:44) The five key signs that a politician is using gaslighting tactics (19:34) How to reclaim your power when you feel like you’re being gaslit (22:50) The overuse of words like "trauma" and "gaslighting" is diluting their impact (30:13) Advice on staying gaslight-free by trusting your instincts and setting clear boundaries (34:44) Resources: Sign up for early notification for the next Daring Way™ retreat Robin’s website Misuse of therapy words Political Gaslighting Book recommendations: I love a good personal development book, and you do too, right? I’ve compiled a list of book recommendations, as mentioned in past episodes. Check out these amazing book recommendations here. Happy reading!   MSN is supported by: We love the sponsors that make our show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: andreaowen.com/sponsors/ Episode link: http://andreaowen.com/633 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Every time you disagree with me, I say to you, stop gaslighting me. Gaslighting is not the same thing as

0:36.9

disagreeing. So gaslighting has a

0:39.8

particular feature of that pivot in the conversation. You asked me about me. I'm now talking about you.

0:47.4

You ask me about me. I'm deflecting it onto something else. You complain about something about me.

0:53.7

I take your character apart.

0:55.7

And so it is about that pivot and it does happen in a power dynamic.

1:02.5

You're listening to Makesan Noise Podcast episode number 633 with guest Robin Stern.

1:21.5

Welcome to Make Some Noise podcast, your guide for strategies, tools, and insight to empower yourself.

1:27.3

I'm your host, Andrea Owen, global speaker, entrepreneur, life coach since 2007, an author of three books

1:29.3

that have been translated into 18 languages and are available in 22 countries.

1:34.6

Each week I'll bring you a guest or a lesson that will help you maximize unshakable

1:39.2

confidence, master resilience, and make some noise in your life.

1:45.8

You ready? Let's go.

1:53.0

Hi, everyone. Welcome to another episode of the podcast. I'm so glad you're here. A couple quick and easy announcements. If you saw on Instagram last week, was it last week, a couple weeks

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