Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra DeMolder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who's stuck in ambivalence after breaking up with her partner.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, we don't know what we're talking about.

We are not trained in any of this.

We are not professionals.

We were just practicing our baby voices before we press record.

No, we had pressed record.

We recorded us ourselves.

Yeah, technically, if you want to pay Lydia a little bit extra, the person who edits our podcast, you can slip her a little extra on Patreon and we'll release the audio of our baby talk. I'm sure that's in high, high demand, hot commodity out there. 100%. People are out there like, please, please talk baby talk into our ears.

Like do it. It's going to be so cute. And then like sarcasm, you know, how do you do that on the keyboard? You do like parentheses sarcasm or something like that? I don't know. Yeah, like slash S. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Code. Anyway, this is all to say. We're not professionals. We're not trained in any of this.

We don't know what we're doing.

So please take our advice as you see fit.

We're only here to offer our humble musings to maybe shed some understanding and maybe some

laughs on the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love.

I hate it.

I hate it so much.

All right. Let's it to today's letter. So today's letter comes from stuck in ambivalence, whose pronouns are she, her, who is writing from

the void. I recently broke up with my partner of many years due to relationship ambivalence.

We were discussing marriage and for many

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