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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who wants to know why her mom gets to fully grieve, but she doesn't.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Correct. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this.

And man, especially when it comes to like family shit, like we should just be a supplement

to your mental health professionals. Please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings.

Hopefully we've had some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right.

Let's get into today's letter.

So today's letter comes from V, whose pronouns are she, her, who is writing from grief resentment.

Is that even a thing?

Dear Sam and Sierra, like everyone who writes you, I love you deeply, listening to your beautiful

voices has been my most precious weekly routine since 2020. I have a potential check-in topic.

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