This is Biz and this is the final season of One Bad Mother.

So join us this last year as we remember to Judge Less,

laugh more, and celebrate all the OBS who have been on this journey with us.

This is still a show about life after giving life.

And yes, there will be swears.

This is one bad mother. This week on One Bad Mother, we continue to stop freaking out with

This week on One Bad Mother, we continue to stop freaking out

with Carla Nomburg, who is back for part two of our epic

conversation about her newest book for middle schoolers and really for all of us. How to stop freaking out the ultimate guide to keeping cool when life feels chaotic.

And now, join me as we, I'm sure, seamlessly,

meld back in to this conversation with Carla.

Fix feels important because people don't acknowledge that one.

Like that even though we'll know in the moment

and you can feel the tension is still there,

like you know something's not right,

but then the person is just like, okay, you can have this like do whatever like you can have my cookie you can take this whatever and I have my my two kids are extremely close you know and they're they're awesome and but I've

got one kid who is so conflict avoid and she'll be like no no it's okay she can have it

no no it's fine every time and I. And I'll stop her and say,

no, that's not how we're going to solve this problem. Like we need to figure out a way to divide up

whatever it is or come to a conclusion where everybody's needs are met a little bit or nobody's needs are met at all and we're all just screwed.

But like you just giving up in this moment to make the tension go away is is not the right solution and even though part of me as a parent is like oh thank God just give your sister the goddamn gee and let's move on.

I don't want her to be out in her life in the real world, thinking that this

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