Episode 52, Existentialism and Romantic Love with Skye Cleary (Part I)
The Panpsycast Philosophy Podcast
Jack Symes | Andrew Horton, Oliver Marley, and Rose de Castellane
4.8 • 612 Ratings
🗓️ 16 December 2018
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Summary
Dr Skye Cleary is a philosopher and author, best known for her work in the field of existentialism. As well as teaching at Columbia, Barnard College and the City College of New York, Skye is also the associate director of the Center for New Narratives in Philosophy at Columbia University.
Skye's contribution to the world of public philosophy has been extensive, writing for a wealth of publications, including The Paris Review, TED-Ed, the Los Angeles Review of Books, Aeon, Business Insider, The Independent and New Philosopher magazine. Skye is also the editor of the American Philosophical Association blog and the author of our focus for this episode, her 2015 book, Existentialism and Romantic Love.
We're going to be discussing with Skye the idea of romantic love, and what we can learn about love from existentialist philosophers such as Max Stirner, Soren Kierkegaard, Jean-Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir and Friedrich Nietzsche. In a world of romantic cinema, novels, love songs, dating apps, and self-help books, the dream of romantic love has been sold to many of us, but Skye Cleary thinks we need to take a step back. The worry, is that we might blindly sacrifice our freedom, offload our happiness onto another person, or use them as a means to our own ends. Existentialism teaches us that we should aim to live authentically and embrace our freedom. Our question for this episode, is whether or not our current understanding of romantic love is compatible with such a view. Can Jack meet Jill fall in love, and not fall down the hill? Should we, can we, and why, should we love?
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| 0:00.0 | Dr. Sky Cleary is a philosopher and author, best known for her work in the field of existentialism. |
| 0:13.0 | As well as teaching at Columbia Bernard College and the City College of New York, |
| 0:17.0 | Sky is also the associate director of the Center for New Narratives in Philosophy |
| 0:21.9 | at Columbia University. |
| 0:24.1 | Sky's contribution to the world of public philosophy has been extensive, writing for a |
| 0:28.4 | wealth of publications including the Paris Review, Ted Ed, the Los Angeles Review of Books, |
| 0:33.8 | Business Insider, The Independence and New Philosopher magazine. |
| 0:43.3 | Sky is also the editor of the American Philosophical Association blog and the author of our focus for this episode, her 2015 book, Existentialism and Romantic Love. |
| 0:48.6 | We're going to be discussing with Sky the idea of romantic love and what we can learn about |
| 0:53.0 | love from existentialist philosophers, |
| 0:55.0 | such as Max Sterner, Soren Kirkagarde, Jean-Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir, and Friedrich Nietzsche. |
| 1:01.0 | In a world of romantic cinema, novels, love songs, dating apps, and self-help books, |
| 1:05.0 | the dream of romantic love has been sold to many of us, but Sky Cleary thinks we need to take a step back. |
| 1:11.0 | The worry is that we might blindly sacrifice our freedom, offload our happiness onto another |
| 1:15.3 | person, or use them as a means to our own ends. Exessentialism teaches us that we should aim to live |
| 1:20.8 | authentically and embrace our freedom. Our question for this episode is whether or not our current |
| 1:25.5 | understanding of romantic love is compatible with such a view. |
| 1:28.9 | Can Jack meet Jill fall in love and not fall down the hill? Should we, can we and why should we love? |
| 1:36.7 | So this week in part one we'll be going to discuss existentialism and romantic love and in part two we'll be engaging in some further analysis and discussion. |
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