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Pillow Talks

Episode 48: How To Get Out Of (And Prevent) Dry Spells

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2022

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Can’t remember the last time you had sex?

Or maybe you remember the exact day and it’s been... too long.

It’s time to talk about one of the most-dreaded issues that comes up in relationships... DRY SPELLS!

You might find yourself wondering if there’s an end in sight. Has your relationship cooled off for good? When you do have sex again, is it going to be awkward or bad, leading to yet another dry spell? Or maybe you’re scaring yourself because you don’t even miss having sex at all!

Dry spells can send you to some really dark places, but we’re here to tell you: there is hope!

In this episode, we’re giving you five tips for combatting dry spells, no matter your circumstance.

We’re also talking about preventing this issue, so even if you’re not in a dry spell right now, you don’t want to miss this episode!

Check out the show notes at: vmtherapy.com/episode48

Transcript

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0:00.0

And you know, if you're uncomfortable talking about sex in general,

0:03.1

talking about not having sex is going to feel even scarier.

0:12.8

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:16.0

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:17.5

And Zander Marin.

0:18.8

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:21.7

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:23.3

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you

0:26.3

step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:29.0

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date

0:31.4

full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,

0:35.4

hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on

0:38.7

behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:41.8

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:46.0

I have a question for you.

0:47.3

Okay.

0:48.3

What is the opposite of a dry spell?

0:51.3

A wet, something I'm thinking of spell like magic spell.

0:59.5

So like what's the opposite of a magic spell?

1:01.6

I don't think there isn't no magic.

1:07.2

A wet, a wet fact.

1:14.4

Oh my god.

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