Episode 47: What Penis Performance Problems REALLY Mean

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

You’re having a steamy makeout session with your partner, things are getting hot and heavy and leading to sex, but your partner just can’t get or stay erect. (Or maybe their erection isn’t the problem, but their orgasm is.)

What does it mean??

For most women, we think the answer lies within ourselves. We’re not hot enough. We’re not experienced enough or lacking technique. Something is wrong with our body, not theirs.

What you THINK these performance issues mean vs. what they REALLY mean are two very different animals, so in today’s episode, we are going there.

Whether your partner has trouble getting and staying hard, orgasming too quickly/taking too long to orgasm, we’re talking about how these issues have affected us in our relationship and giving you all of our best tips for navigating them in (and out) of the moment.

And, spoiler alert, this episode turned into a mini therapy session for us!

Check out the show notes at: vmtherapy.com/episode47

Transcript

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0:00.0	when you get this feeling of,
0:01.5	maybe I'm not as hard as I want to be,
0:03.1	maybe this thing that happened before is going to happen again.
0:05.9	Once that thought comes up,
0:07.5	it feels like all of a sudden,
0:09.7	you're not really able to tune in to your own experience anymore.
0:18.4	Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.
0:21.7	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:23.2	And Xander Marin.
0:24.4	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:27.4	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:29.0	We share the ups and downs in our relationship
0:31.2	while giving you step-by-step techniques
0:33.2	for improving yours.
0:34.7	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double-date
0:37.1	full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,
0:41.2	hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on
0:44.4	behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
0:47.5	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:51.8	Today, I have a mystery for you.
0:54.6	Okay.
0:55.7	It is the case of the misbehaving penis.
	...

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