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Over It And On With It

Episode 466: How to Deal with the Fear and Doubt that Comes Up in Regards to Your Dreams with Tina

Over It And On With It

Christine Hassler

Mental Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8 β€’ 1.7K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 28 August 2024

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of "Over It and On With It," Christine Hassler coaches Tina, who struggles with fear and doubt regarding her dreams of finding a partner and starting a family.

At 41, Tina has done significant personal work to connect with herself and remain grounded in her feminine energy. However, she often experiences panic and doubt, mainly when influenced by external messages about age and time. Through their coaching session, Christine helps Tina explore the root causes of her panic and teaches her how to form a deeper connection with her inner child. This approach enables Tina to navigate her fears more effectively and stay aligned with her desires.

Christine explains that Tina's fear and panic are not just obstacles but are rooted in protective mechanisms formed in her childhood. By addressing these fears with compassion and understanding, Tina can move past them and create space for her dreams to manifest.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

  • Do you sometimes believe in your dreams but get pulled off course by doubt and fear?
  • Do you panic when doubt and fear arise, thinking you're sabotaging your desires?
  • Have you done personal work but still find specific patterns, like fear or doubt, that are hard to change?
  • Do you have a deep, nurturing connection with the younger parts of yourself?

The Guest's Key Insights & A-HA's:

  • Tina's fear and doubt are deeply connected to her inner child, who experienced instability and uncertainty in her early years.
  • Christine identifies that Tina's panic is a form of protection, a response she developed to feel safe when her environment was unpredictable.
  • By acknowledging and communicating with her inner child, Tina can begin to alleviate her fears and doubts, allowing her to stay aligned with her dreams.
  • The coaching session emphasizes the importance of developing a deeper relationship with oneself, especially the parts that feel fear, doubt, and insecurity.

How to Get Over It & On With It:

  • Recognize that fear and doubt are not signs of failure but messages from parts of yourself that need care and attention.
  • Develop a consistent practice of checking in with your inner child or younger self, offering reassurance and understanding.
  • Allow yourself to feel your emotions fully without rushing to fix or change them. This will create a more authentic and healing experience.
  • Integrate new, supportive beliefs by connecting with your inner child and affirming that you are safe and supported in your journey.

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Upcoming Events:

  • Christine Hassler's upcoming retreat will be held at the end of September 2024 in Austin, Texas. Early bird pricing is available until the end of August. Register at christinehassler.com/retreat.

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0:00.0

This is episode 466, how to deal with the fear and doubt that comes up in regards to your dreams with Tina.

0:09.2

Welcome to Over It and On With It. I'm your host, Christine Has Hasler and for over a decade I've been a life coach, speaker, and author.

0:17.0

Each week you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing.

0:23.0

I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply

0:27.4

to your own life.

0:28.4

Now let's get on with the episode. Welcome back to the show everybody.

0:37.0

So happy to have you here.

0:38.6

I don't know if you had a chance to listen to Saturday's Coaches Corner episode where I had respectful parenting expert Janet

0:44.8

Lansbury on the show. A lovely conversation and she gave me some advice. I

0:49.8

shared some vulnerable stuff about what was going on with my daughter and I did it and we had a change that night.

0:57.0

So I'm no longer lying in the crib with my little girl which was not good for my body. Now I am lying on the

1:07.0

bed next to her which is so sweet. Anyway the things that you know take our focus as a parent, I'm sure those of you who have 12-year-olds or 22-year-olds

1:17.7

or 42-year-olds, maybe remember having a two-year-old.

1:22.0

And whenever I'm in one of these moments of like oh gosh how did I end up in the

1:26.7

crib or frustrated because we went to Legoland and she didn't take a nap in the middle of the day and I thought the rest of the day was going to be

1:35.1

disaster but it turned out to be fine. I just remind myself in those moments of a couple things.

1:43.5

And this is helpful for anyone.

1:45.8

Parent, no parent, doesn't matter.

1:48.8

That things are temporary.

1:51.7

They really are. In my case my daughter will be 122242 before I know it.

1:58.0

And two, when we get into hyper-vigilance about it and overthinking is a form of hypervigilance, you know, trying to figure it out,

2:08.0

going to worst-case scenarios, you know, me using my example again thinking, oh my my gosh my kids like never going to be

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