Hi everybody, welcome to Coaches Corner. I was so happy to get this guest on.

Her name is Janet Lansbury and she's one of the few parenting experts that I truly resonate with and when I read books

I was like yes this makes so much sense to me this is the essence of my work and it helped me align you know my parenting with how I

hold space for clients and you might think jays, wasn't that like a no-brainer?

And I'm sure any of you who've had children, especially your first children, it's very humbling.

It's very humbling.

And stuff comes up and it took me a while as a mom to really settle

into my confidence as a mom really knowing me my philosophy as a mom. my

confidence as a mom,

of my philosophy as a mom. Of course, I loved her before she was even born.

But finding our groove, finding our rhythm,

finding the way that I could parent and keep a regulated nervous

system for the for the most part. It took me a minute, you know, it took a while, you know,

most people I've heard from a lot of people oh your

instincts will kick in and you'll know exactly what to do as a mom. That was not

true for me. I didn't know exactly what to do and I found myself looking for

external advice and then I found myself trying to only rely on

myself and anyway that's a longer conversation I'll bring someone else on the

podcast like actually a coach that I worked with to unpack that a little more and it was

really Janet's work that stems from the work of Magda Gerber that was just like oh

this really hits home and it hits home with my husband too and it's really changed

changed our relationship to parenting and our kid.

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