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Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor

Episode 45: Pallavi Barnwal

Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor

Kat Rulach

Kids & Family, Arts, Music, Parenting

4.8527 Ratings

🗓️ 18 October 2021

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Pallavi Barnwal is a sex coach and she lives in Delhi with her eight year old son. I first heard about Pallavi when I read about her in an article on the BBC news website. I then watched her Ted Talk and thought her story and perspective on life was fascinating. She was born and raised in a traditional Indian family, and didn’t become a coach until she found herself a single mum and a divorcee, the other side of an arranged marriage. Her experiences led her to be more open with her friends and they started coming to her for advice. She could see there was an opportunity to help more people talk safely and freely about sex. Now she aids lots of women - and men - find their way to being happier and more knowledgable in their intimate lives.

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0:00.0

Hello, I'm Sophia Lusbexter and welcome to Spinning Plates, the podcast where I speak to busy working women who also happen to be mothers about how they make it work.

0:14.0

I'm a singer and I've released seven albums in between having my five sons aged 16 months to 16 years, so I spin a few plates myself.

0:22.5

Being a mother can be the most amazing thing, but can also be hard to find time for yourself

0:26.8

and your own ambitions. I want to be a bit nosy and see how other people balance everything.

0:32.1

Welcome to spinning plates.

0:37.4

Hello, my lovely podcast listener. How are you today? You find me upstairs in Mickey's room,

0:47.0

which is also my wardrobe room. I did manage to get this place quite organised for a while,

0:51.9

but now it's looking like it needs to be a TLC. I've been working quite a lot recently and actually this is my first weekend off in eight

1:00.0

weekends I think nine weekends lots of festivals lots of gigs so it's been really nice just not

1:06.5

going out and just taking some time with the family and just, yeah, not living out of a bag for a weekend.

1:13.6

The festival's been amazing. I've had some awesome gigs, but I am quite happy just to be sat at home and not doing so much, and that's probably why I sound quite so lethargic.

1:22.6

I think I'm actually fairly knackered. It's been a lot of seven-day weeks going on around here. And I think also we're kind of heading towards half-terms that the kids are a bit knackard too. In fact, my youngest, Mickey, is not very well today, which is a shame. There's so many bugs going around, aren't there? Now that we're all out and about and meet each other again, all those other things that we're being repressed are now out and about. And yeah, I've got quite a busy week ahead, but I've done the

1:51.4

majority of my stuff for the book now, the promotion of that. So that's out in the world. And thank

1:57.1

you so much for all the response that I've been having. If you're one of the people that has got in touch about the book, then honestly, it meant a lot to me.

2:04.9

It's been a slightly...

2:08.3

Well, what's the right word?

2:10.3

I suppose it's just made me feel a bit more vulnerable than the usual release.

2:14.2

When you put an album out into the world, albums are laced with lots of stuff.

2:17.6

They're incredibly collaborative. And even though there might be lots of your own emotions in there

2:22.7

that are completely authentic to what you're living through, you can mask it in amongst other

2:28.3

things and other characters, whereas in the book, if it's an autobiography, there's not really

2:32.9

those layers, you know, a bit weird if I

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