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The Boundaries.me Podcast

Episode 426 - The Dr. Cloud Show - Breaking Free from Snap Judgments

The Boundaries.me Podcast

Greg Bowler

Religion & Spirituality, Henrycloud, Gaslighting, Productivity, Mentalhealth, Boundaries, Faith, Leadership, Drhenrycloud, Christiancounseling, Psychology, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Counseling, Christianity, Narcissism, Relationships, Drcloud

4.7815 Ratings

🗓️ 6 May 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the show, Dr. Henry Cloud discusses the importance of developing a curious mindset rather than a critical one. He explains how snap judgments and rigid thinking limit our options and relationships, while seeking to understand others creates better connections. The episode includes a write-in question about anxiety that arises when experiencing happiness, with Dr. Cloud explaining how past experiences can create vigilance patterns in our brain's wiring. Callers ask questions about friendship insecurity, concerns about a daughter's fiancé, and dating someone who's recently divorced. Dr. Cloud provides advice on handling complex relationship dynamics and emphasizes the value of curiosity in resolving conflicts.

Are toxic relationships draining your energy and stealing your joy? You're not alone, and you don't have to keep feeling stuck. Dr. Henry Cloud has helped millions of people reclaim their peace by setting healthy boundaries. Dr. Cloud’s free guide, "10 Strategies for Dealing with Toxic People," teaches you how to spot harmful behaviors like gaslighting, effectively handle narcissists, and say "no" without guilt.

It's time to feel safe again. Download your free copy at www.boundaries.me/free

Transcript

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0:00.0

Are you done tolerating unfairness in your relationships?

0:04.1

Dr. Henry Cloud reveals key insights to protect your emotional health from toxic behaviors.

0:09.4

Grab your free ebook at www.W.boundaries.me slash free and discover what makes a person unsafe,

0:17.8

strategies for handling gaslighting, Had a deal with narcissistic personalities.

0:22.6

Setting firm boundaries by saying no.

0:25.3

Responding effectively to victim mentalities.

0:28.1

Don't wait.

0:29.2

Download it now at www.

0:31.2

at www.boundaries.me slash free.

0:42.4

Welcome back.

0:43.7

It's the Dr. Cloud show.

0:46.6

As you know, if you've tuned to before,

0:50.7

we generally talk about something in the beginning of the show.

0:59.1

And what I want to look at for a moment here is, is a particular mindset that is so, so important. And there's a lot of things that this can be called.

1:09.6

One of them is, you know, cognitive flexibility. One of them

1:14.0

is confirmation bias. One of them are fixed rigid views. Judgmentalism, critical voices in

1:24.5

your head, all of that. But here's what the point is.

1:32.2

I'm going to oversimplify this.

1:35.0

We tend to approach situations in a couple of different ways.

1:42.8

And one of those ways is to pretty much instantly,

1:51.7

we judge it or evaluate it in some way,

1:57.1

coming to a conclusion about it,

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