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Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Episode 404: David Woods(Gay Latter-Day Saint) and his niece Bekah Clements (Ally)

Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler

Religion & Spirituality

4.8839 Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2021

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

My friend David Woods (early 60’s) and his niece Bekah Clements (married mother of three, HR Director) share their story. David (who served a mission in Switzerland) talks about being gay in Utah, moving away from Utah and leaving the Church, developing a successful multi-faceted career, returning to the Church after being out for several decades, moving back to Utah (where he is currently serving as a temple worker and ward clerk). It’s a moving and remarkable story. David talks about the difficult road of being gay and LDS and how he did his best to move forward. Bekah talks about her uncle David and how we can better support and love family members regardless of their church activity. This podcast is a beautiful love story. David and I learn—in real time during the podcast—that we crossed paths over 30 years ago. Bekah, who is a Relief Society teacher in her ward, shares this powerful statement about the need for everyone in our congregations. "For our boat to swing in unison we need you if you have gay or straight children. We need working women and full-time homemakers. We need women with children, those coping with the pain of infertility, and those that will not have children in this life. We need you if you are married, single, divorced, or widowed. We need those who are depressed, those who deal with crippling anxiety as well as those who can lift the burden of those in the pit of despair. We want those who have a temple recommend, those that have never had a recommend, and those who are working to get to a place where they can renew their recommend. We need introverts just as much as we need extroverts in this boat. Those with strong testimonies, wavering testimonies, and those who have never gained a testimony belong in our boat. There is a seat in the boat for converts, investigators, and those who come from pioneer stock. We need those dealing with crippling illnesses as much as we need those in perfect health. We need women of all colors, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and political affiliations. If you can fight the fight we need you as much as those who can make peace. We need those whose husbands struggle with pornography addiction. We need you if you are overweight or stick thin. If you are suffering with substance abuse or can be the support system for someone who is, we need you on our team. We need those that cook and bake as well as those who support Door Dash. We need you if your husband is a righteous active priesthood holder, an inactive priesthood holder, or does not hold the priesthood at all. We need those with a million dollars in the bank and those who are living paycheck to paycheck. We need those who want to be in the boat as well as those who don’t. (from her FB post: https://www.facebook.com/rebekah.w.clements/posts/10158824393103810) Thank you David and Bekah for being on the podcast. You are two of my heroes! Your insights bring us healing and together as the same human family. ** Please Check Out My New Book At: ** Deseret Book: www.deseretbook.com/p/listen-learn-and-love-embracing-lgbtq-latter-day-saints Amazon: www.amazon.com/dp/1462135773

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0:00.0

Hello, listeners. Welcome to another episode of Listen, Learn, and Love hosted by Richard Osler.

0:13.2

Just a housekeeping thing. I appreciate all that you're doing to leave reviews about the book I wrote

0:19.2

called Listen, Learn, and Loveacing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints.

0:23.6

If you haven't left a review, I'd sure appreciate it if you did on Amazon or a Deserate

0:28.2

book.

0:29.3

And also, if you could rate this podcast on Apple, that would, and leave a review that are the

0:34.5

things that you can do to help support this podcast.

0:37.3

You can't donate, but you can do to help support this podcast. You can't donate,

0:38.3

but you can do those kind of things. I'm really glad to have our guests on today's podcast,

0:45.0

and we just started with a prayer, and we're going to start doing this podcast. We don't

0:50.0

overly script these. The best way I can describe to people coming on to the podcast,

0:54.5

it's like going out to lunch and me just hearing your story and only you can tell your

1:00.6

story as good as you can. So that's kind of what we're doing here. We're just inviting

1:04.4

you our listeners to lunch and we're all going to hear from Dave Woods and Becca Clements.

1:12.0

Welcome to the podcast, YouTube.

1:13.6

Thank you.

1:15.3

Dave Woods is in his early 60s.

1:18.3

He's a gay Latter-day Saint, served a mission in Switzerland.

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Then at some point, separated himself from the church, lived in the San Francisco area, and then about

1:29.5

eight years ago, approximately reconnected with the church and is now active in the church,

1:35.2

holds a calling, is a temple worker, has been a ward clerk, a financial clerk, and lives in the

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North Ogden area, or the Ogden area.

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