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One Heart One Mind

Episode 4: The Struggle to Not Feel

One Heart One Mind

Thomas McConkie

Meditation, Spirituality, Mindfulness, Contemplation, Psychology, Buddhism, Development, Thomasmcconkie, Religion & Spirituality

5632 Ratings

🗓️ 9 August 2023

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Thomas reprises the ever-present theme of vulnerability in this episode. As we mature in life, our capacity to tolerate more disturbing experience tends to mature as well. We start to realize how much energy we’ve spent avoiding certain experiences that have been with us all along. Mindfulness practice reveals to us a deeper capacity we have to stay present and awake to whatever is arising. In this way, we begin to let go of the struggle to not feel.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to another episode of Mindfulness Plus. I'm your host, Thomas

0:08.8

McConkey. Thank you so much for listening today. In the season opener for season six,

0:16.0

I talked about a vulnerable moment I had out here in my new town of Boston, Massachusetts,

0:23.7

where I fell into a river.

0:26.3

If you haven't listened to that episode, and you want to hear about me falling into a river?

0:31.2

I recommend it.

0:32.7

I mentioned that because today's episode is on a related theme, related to vulnerability.

0:40.3

And I know vulnerability has made its rounds in media.

0:46.3

Brené Brown, the patron saint of vulnerability, does a great job with it.

0:50.3

Why would I say anything else about vulnerability?

0:53.3

I actually think that vulnerability is close to the heart of almost everything we do in life.

1:04.4

Particularly in this practice, we're doing mindfulness practice here,

1:08.4

in case you didn't notice from the title of the podcast.

1:13.5

In mindfulness, when we bring our highest awareness to the present moment and the raw nature of experience,

1:24.5

if we do it faithfully, if we do it consistently, we're bound to feel very vulnerable

1:29.9

at a certain point. Why? It turns out in life, when we pay attention, when we're mindful,

1:40.9

sooner or later we get the insight that we have almost always unconsciously,

1:47.0

we get this insight that we have unconsciously choreographed our lives

1:53.0

around avoiding certain experiences and seeking other experiences.

1:59.0

Mindfulness as a practice cuts through that because we get this message

2:04.8

imprinted in our bodies in mindfulness that whatever is happening, our basic task is to bring

2:11.3

full awareness to it, precision and awareness as well as great openness. So I'm clear on what's

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