Welcome to Just Break Up, the Podcasts About Love, Heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who caught her

partner in so many lies after catching him in so many lies but before we

begin we just want to give you our Surgeon General's, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health

practitioners.

No, we are not.

We are not professional relationship help people.

We are not trained in any of this. So please take our advice

as you see fit. We are only here to offer our humble museums that get more and more

humble every week to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love

All right let me just dive into today's letter. Let's do it. It's from Hurt and Torn whose pronouns are They Them who is writing to us from The Void.

I know that y'all recently responded to a cheating write-in and I appreciate that so much.

I could really use some further advice and insight and I feel like given

that you're both admitted past cheaters. We didn't need to be dragged like

that. I forget that y'all know us so well.

Yeah, you pose that they really do, which is delightful. I know it's like you guys you guys don't know us but you know the

worst things we've ever done in our lives like that's true that's some power you know anyway

where's the season yeah so so for both admitted cheaters,

you could have a little bit of empathy for both people, absolutely.

My partner, 34, cisgendered Latino man, and I, 29, non- non-binary white have been together for six years.

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