If they can have a reasonable discussion with me, if they can meet a reasonable person who holds a different opinion, there's a chance we might start to build a bridge.

Maybe it's just that you don't know how to use social courtesy.

Oh, that's old-fashioned.

Watch how Lizzie Post and...

Dan Post-Scenting.

Act as host and hostess.

They know that courtesy means showing respect, thinking of the other person, real friendliness.

Coming up on this episode of Awesome Etiquette,

should wedding guests have a change of attire?

Can you be too approachable? A couple of your awesomeiquette. Should wedding guests have a change of attire? Can you be too

approachable? A couple of your Awesome Etiquette entertaining questions. And do you have to write

thank you notes to funeral attendees? In our PostScript segment, we'll talk about tolerance and

tier two topics of conversation. Awesome Etiquette comes to you from the studios of Vermont

Public Radio and is proud to be part of the Infinite Guest Network from American Public Media. I'm Lizzie Post. And I'm Dan Post Sending from the Emily Post Institute.

Uh, beda, but da, but, but, but, bed, bed, bed, bed, bed, bed, bed, bed, bed. I didn't sleep last night. Oh my gosh. Is that setting in? It is.

And this is my last day in town at home before heading to the wedding site.

So I've got a 24-hour countdown from 8 o'clock this morning to be packed and ready to go for the next two weeks.

That is amazing.

It is.

If everything comes together by T-minus 20.

Dude, I'm feeling it. I was like on the on the on the on the live chat with India, when is my sorry going to get here? I mean, I'm freaking out. It's not even my wedding.

Yeah. Good news is all the physical pieces are in place. Okay, good. Like some of the remaining to-dos, a couple more rehearsals of the first dance, the playlist for the reception, the slide show.

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