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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 377: Preparing for Couples Therapy & Managing Depersonalization and Derealization

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 8 December 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Hello friends!

In Episode 377, we tackle two profound listener questions that shed light on unique mental health and relationship challenges.

Our first discussion revolves around a listener gearing up for couples therapy. They share their apprehension about conveying years of experiences within the confines of therapy sessions. We explore strategies for effective communication, the importance of preparation, and utilizing therapy as a starting point rather than a complete solution. The conversation also touches on the usefulness of additional resources like therapy workbooks and individual therapy in enhancing the couples therapy experience.

The second question comes from a 23-year-old male experiencing derealization, depersonalization, and occasional panic attacks. These symptoms make him feel detached from his environment and himself, as if living in an unreal world. We dive into understanding these phenomena, identifying possible triggers, and discussing various coping methods. These include sensory grounding techniques, mindfulness practices, and the potential roles of therapy and medication in managing these dissociative experiences.

Your questions continue to add depth and insight to our discussions on mental health. If you have any questions or topics you'd like to share, please send them to duffthepsych@gmail.com. For full show notes and additional resources, visit http://duffthepsych.com/episode377.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

have these things on your mind and when it's hot for so hot meaning like active and

0:04.8

live it's so easy for you to express them but then when you get some distance from

0:10.3

it and you find yourself sitting in a therapist's office you're like yeah I know this was really important to me at the time

0:16.5

It's kind of hard for me to figure out how to say it though. Hey everybody before we start the show I want to make a couple disclaimers.

0:23.2

This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general

0:27.4

and some of those could be sensitive for you.

0:29.7

I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave and consuming difficult content, but also respect and recognize

0:35.5

your limitations.

0:37.0

So please use your best judgment.

0:38.6

I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an episode entirely, feel free to feel it out check out the

0:44.4

episode and just see what happens if you need to skip that's okay but you know feel free to give it a

0:48.4

shot first I also need to say that while I am a psychologist I'm not your therapist.

0:54.4

This is not intended to be direct medical advice and you should not use this as a

0:58.4

substitute for professional help. So with those said let's go ahead and get into the

1:02.3

show. All right.

1:17.0

Hello friends of all varieties. This is the Hardcore Self Health Podcast episode 377.

1:25.3

I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Deaf the Psych. I make mental health content for real people, just like you.

1:32.0

And today I have a question and answer episode with

1:35.1

two really interesting questions from listeners like yourselves if you would like

1:39.0

to send me in a question or multiple questions for the show please shoot me an email to death the psych at gmail.

1:45.0

Or you can use the contact form on my website death the psych.com.

1:49.0

They both go to the same place.

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