Episode 373: Quitting Addiction is Like Giving Up a Lover with Stephen Buckbee
The Addicted Mind Podcast
Duane Osterlind, LMFT
4.7 • 655 Ratings
🗓️ 5 September 2017
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
Anyone who has worked in the field of addiction recovery will know that recovery is a long road, and often we as therapists and counselors will need to find ways to engage our client’s sense of thought and endurance. The work of Virginia Satir has been extremely influential in addiction recovery, and this week’s guest, Stephen Buckbee, has been using Satir’s methods successfully for years now.
Stephen joins Duane Osterlind on the Addicted Mind this week to explain the transformative power of embracing change. Therapy, he says, is a process that the counselor and therapist can enter into with their client. Rather than striving to “fix” a recovering addict, we have the power to generate a place of safety and self-discovery. Therapy is at its most powerful when the slow change process is fully engaged. The Satir Method is very good at embracing change and paving the way to recovery. Join us this week as we celebrate recovery and empowerment through self-discovery!
Also in this episode.
- How Stephen employs the principles of Virginia Satir’s methods with clients who struggle with addictions.
- A discussion of the foreign elements that begin the process of change.
- This model meets the client where they are at so that they can begin the decision-making process.
- The most difficult obstacle for recovery is forgiveness for past transgressions.
- Moving on from the past into the future of recovery.
- Using the Satir method to help addicts re-focus their thoughts away from the pleasure of addiction.
- The huge importance of a support system.
- The burdens of busy-ness.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, everyone. I'm very excited today about our guest, Stephen Buckby. I met Stephen Buckby |
| 0:10.9 | approximately, probably about 10 years ago at my first Virginia Seteer Global Conference. It was |
| 0:18.0 | quite an amazing experience. Most of my experience going to clinical |
| 0:22.3 | conferences was, you know, having the keynote speaker, stand up on stage, have PowerPoints, listen. |
| 0:28.7 | You get a lot of good knowledge and everything. But what I didn't expect was the experiential |
| 0:34.6 | component of Virginia Seteer's work to be expressed in a conference. |
| 0:39.2 | And I was really blown away. |
| 0:40.4 | And Steve and his colleagues did an amazing job talking about the mandala and using that as a way to facilitate change. |
| 0:50.3 | So I'm very excited to have him on the podcast today. |
| 0:53.4 | And I hope you guys enjoy it. |
| 0:55.5 | Steve Buckby is one amazing guy. |
| 0:59.4 | Welcome, Steve, to the Addicted Mind podcast. |
| 1:02.3 | I'm glad you're here. |
| 1:03.0 | I'm glad you're going to be my guest. |
| 1:05.6 | You want to introduce yourself? |
| 1:07.5 | It's a pleasure. |
| 1:08.4 | Thanks for asking. |
| 1:10.1 | My name is Steve Buckby. I live in a little town called |
| 1:12.4 | Escanava, Michigan, which is in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. I'm a certified social worker |
| 1:18.3 | and a licensed professional counselor, and I've been at that since the early 70s. Oh, wow. That's |
| 1:25.6 | awesome. So you have a lot of experience. Yes, I've had many different |
| 1:29.7 | contexts, both outpatient, inpatient, and then later on as a teacher. It was certainly a subject that |
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