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🗓️ 16 February 2022
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A young trans man and his mother speak about her struggle to accept his gender identity.
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Conversations with People Who Hate Me is part of the TED Audio Collective. Credits: Dylan Marron (creator, producer, host), Vincent Cacchione (audio mixer), Phillip Blackowl (logo designer), Mindy Tucker (logo photographer). Theme song: "These Dark Times" by Caged Animals.
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0:00.0 | Ted Audio Collective Did you ever really feel that you hated the |
0:11.2 | other? Me personally, I hated her. Yeah, I hated you for thinking that you were |
0:19.3 | someone else. Hey, and welcome to conversations with people who hate me. I am your host, |
0:40.0 | Dylan Marin back from an almost two-year hiatus, and I got to say I have |
0:46.6 | really missed you. So I'm glad to be back. If you're a longtime listener, I am so glad to have |
0:53.7 | you return, and if you're just tuning in for the very first time, I'm equally thrilled to have |
0:59.4 | you here. To explain the show's long absence from your feed, there was, as you know, a global pandemic, |
1:08.5 | but there was also something else. I wrote a book, a book that is actually also called |
1:14.6 | Conversations with People Who Hate Me, because it's all about this very podcast. In this book, |
1:21.4 | I retrace my steps through years of making this show, the hundreds of strangers have corresponded |
1:27.9 | with behind the scenes, the dozens of conversations that you've heard me host publicly, and I distilled |
1:34.6 | all of that down to 12 things that I've learned from this project. And while the book tells the story |
1:41.6 | of my process, the mistakes I've made along the way, and the unlikely connections I've made in |
1:47.6 | spite of them, it's really meant to be a roadmap for you on how to have difficult conversations |
1:53.7 | of your own. And it's not just with internet strangers, but family members, estranged friends, |
2:00.5 | similarly-minded folks who you just spar with for one reason or another, or anyone who sees the world |
2:07.8 | differently from you. I will tell you that Glennon Doyle, the best-selling author of Untamed, |
2:14.5 | and of whom I am a huge fan, said that this book helped her believe again in the potential goodness |
2:22.2 | of the internet. Please do not judge me for relaying a compliment about my own book. It was a very big |
2:27.8 | deal, and you know what, you totally can judge me. You can think whatever you want about me, I welcome it. |
2:34.5 | Last thing I'll say about the book is that conversations with people who hate me, the book, |
2:39.2 | comes out on March 29th, 2022, and I am so, so, so excited to finally share this with you, |
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