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Gender Reveal

Episode 35: Aubri Qian

Gender Reveal

Tuck Woodstock

Society & Culture, Documentary, Personal Journals

4.71.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 December 2018

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with LGBTQ advocate and diversity & inclusion professional Aubri Qian (she/her/hersss). Topics include:

  • Tips for working & applying for work while trans.
  • Getting routinely harassed by the TSA.
  • Vagina advice!
  • (Re)claiming our own names.
  • Exploring gender through cosplay.
  • Plus: Bowsette! Bespoke gender! Janet Mock!

Find Aubri on LinkedIn, I guess?

Don't forget to hit up cooltranssanta@gmail.com or @cooltranssanta for a special gift and hella affirmation.

Join the Gender Detectives Slack here!

Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at our website; via gendereveal@gmail.com; or on Twitter or Instagram. You can also submit questions anonymously here.

We greatly appreciate donations via Patreon or PayPal or Cash App. Donate $5+ to receive stickers and other fun stuff. ('Tis the season, ya know?)

Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: "Jazzy Bells" by Dee Yan-Key
Sponsors: YOU! Thank you!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, Welcome to Gender Reveal, a podcast where we ask intrusive personal questions and hopefully

0:20.5

get a little bit closer to understanding what the hell gender is.

0:24.4

I'm your host and resident gender detective Molly Woodstock.

0:28.6

Hello everyone, I hope you're having a nice holiday where you don't have to go to

0:37.2

work and know and misgenders or dead names you. This week on the show my gift to

0:42.0

you is an interview with LGBTQ advocate and diversity and inclusion professional Aubrey Chen.

0:48.0

Brie and I have been friends for 15 years, a fact that makes me feel absolutely ancient, but I invited her on to the show not because she's one of my favorite people on earth, which she is, but because she says a lot of smart and useful things.

1:00.0

Fun fact, a bundle of vaginal dilators, looks quite similar to a cartoon bundle of dynamite.

1:10.0

But before we get to that, I want to pass along an extremely cute offer from a dear friend of the show, as read to you by a different dear friend of the show.

1:20.0

Ho, ho, Trans Santa is here!

1:24.0

Being trans during the holidays can be hard, so if you're feeling alone,

1:28.0

like you aren't being seen for who you are,

1:30.0

or like you need a little family love,

1:32.0

message cool trans Santa at gmail.com or add us on Twitter that's c-o-o-o-l-T-R-A-N-S-S-A-T-A with your address, name, and

1:45.0

name and pronouns, and we'll send you a homemade gift

1:48.0

or a loving letter when supplies run out.

1:51.0

Additionally, if you or someone you know is in need of gender affirming gear such as a binder or

1:56.3

shapeware, or if you have gently used gear to give, send us an email and we'll connect

2:01.3

you with each other so we can help out our trans siblings in need.

2:05.2

Happy holidays and remember you are loved, valid in who you are and the world is a better place with you in it.

2:23.0

Chris Kringle, they then. As usual, this show is 100% listener-sponsored. Thank you so much to everyone who joined our Patreon and or our new Slack in the last week.

2:28.8

It really warms my little trans heart to see y'all take action to support the show and to build community with us.

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